JackyB
Here in Germany the concept of a roast turkey dinner is not necessarily connected with Christmas so I am not committed to a turkey "and all the trimmings" - even if a whole turkey was available anywhere.
The family have come to get used to it over the years though so I do a roast, but it can be beef or chicken or game. There's nothing simpler than a roast anyway. I serve as many sorts of vegetable as there are guests and that's where I cut corners: sweetcorn, haricot beans, peas, etc, all come out of the freezer and are done in the microwave with some butter and salt.
No one really has time or room for pudding so that is usually just ice cream. Germans don't understand hot puddings.
It's more about eating and chatting together than what the actual food is. So, while I pride myself on my cooking, and my daughters in law and my sister in law have complimented me, I prefer to put work into the choice of wine, decorations, games, ambiance and atmosphere rather than spend time cooking.
“germans don’t really understand hot puddings”.
Beg to differ on that one! My late MIL was German and her German SIL was a professional cook.
They would spend hours preparing mouth watering desserts like fruit tarts, strudels, poached fruit, gateaux and just about everything was served with cream.
We still have relatives living in Germany and are always staggered at the amount of food and alcohol they get through in a day.