I have two that I originally bought from B & M a few years ago. I planted one at the top of the garden in quite poor soil and one in a pot which I put in front of the house. Neither did very well to be honest so I decided to dig up the planted one and plant both in the front garden several feet apart. The front is south facing and other than a bit of leaf curl caused by the frost in late April and early May both are thriving. They're slightly different heights but that doesn't matter. I love the colour and the movement when the breeze catches them.
I also have a Sambucca which is thriving better out front than in the back garden.
What gives you a warm feeling? 🥰