I asked one of my sons to water my tomato plants for a few days last summer when I unexpectedly had to stay with my very elderly mother. It turned out to be very hot, and on day 3 he sent me a photo of the tomato plants in the little greenhouse, completely shrivelled and dead.
30 minutes later he sent me a message saying that it was a joke, that he had used an app to create the image. I had to laugh once I got over the urge to kill him.
Sorry Witzend, I know yours isn't a joke and I totally understand how you must feel. 
Live over 225 miles away from family


