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What was the job of your grandmother?

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Pinkwriter Thu 01-May-25 08:51:04

I believe my grandma´s job was sewing, and washing and ironing clothes.
I am doing a little research about other jobs women had.
Do you know if your grandma had to quit school to start working? How many hours did she work? How old was she when she started?
Please share your stories.
Thanks!

Polwal Fri 02-May-25 13:54:32

My grandmother was an early widow with 3 children (my mum being one) . I'm sure my mum said she took washing in for extra money.

SparklyGrandma Fri 02-May-25 13:53:32

My paternal grandmother when 16 turned into a pupil teacher at her own school. She taught and saved for 3 years, then paid her way through a women’s Teacher Training College. She then worked until age and got married. She had to give up teaching as married women had to.
My maternal grandmother working as a shop manager and buyer between age 14 to 67.
One of my paternal great great grandmothers was a midwife. Before they were qualified.
My maternal maternal g great grandmother made cluster bombs during the war WWII.

kinjil Fri 02-May-25 13:51:12

My paternal grandmother was a private midwife. She was widowed with five children and had to earn a living in London.

Whiff Fri 02-May-25 13:50:17

My nan on my mother's side brought up 5 children and worked as a cleaner at the local brewery. They even had to scrub the weigh bridge for the lorries ..
My dad's mom died when he was 3 and his brother 18 months . He's stepmother was never my nan . He had 5 half siblings the youngest was born with Downs in 1950 but he lived at home with his family and went to special school and then workshop to make things to sell for the charity.

I know more about mom's side of the family and knew my great aunts and uncles 2 &3 rd cousins .

cookiemonster66 Fri 02-May-25 13:48:41

my nanny worked as a cook in Windsor Castle, she was the best at baking cakes and scones ever! If anyone popped round for a visit, during the time it took the for the kettle to boil on the stove she had knocked up a batch of scones and they were in the oven, and by the time the tea had brewed in the pot they were served up, oh my what glorious days I miss her so much x

Jess20 Fri 02-May-25 13:46:59

GMs - one was a farmers wife, the other a crofter/fisherman's wife. Both would have been fully involved in their husbands work and childcare.

Newtothissite Fri 02-May-25 13:42:41

My grandmother ran my grandfather's clothing manufacturer and shop owner the whole time he was away at the war.

Larsonsmum Fri 02-May-25 13:41:26

My Irish Grandmother worked in a linen factory. My Scottish grandmother was a domestic/maid to a family.

Cressida Fri 02-May-25 13:35:45

Before marriage my paternal grandmother worked in a shoe factory & my maternal grandmother worked in a cotton mill.

crazyH Fri 02-May-25 12:23:38

I was the youngest of nine. I never knew my paternal grandparents but I think they were shoe-makers - my maternal grandmother was blind for as long as I remember and we called her ‘blind Nana’ but I think she was just a stay-at-home mum.

GrandmaKT Fri 02-May-25 12:16:23

My maternal grandmother was a primary school teacher. She worked when her own children were small, in the WW2 years, and afterwards. She was still working as a supply teacher when I started school, and she occasionally taught my class.
My paternal grandma died before I was born, but she and her husband were hotel owners and I believe she worked very hard in the family business.

Norah Fri 02-May-25 12:09:25

Macadia

henetha

My paternal grandmother never worked. She was one the older girls in a family of 13 and helped look after her younger siblings until she got married.
I never knew my maternal grandmother.

Your paternal grandmother definitely worked ! She just didnt receive any pay.

Indeed.

My grandmothers, mum, and I never received pay. We've all stayed home - but we've all worked quite hard.

Shrub Fri 02-May-25 11:18:19

My Scottish grandmother and her sister both went to university. My grandmother was a teacher for a while and then had children. Her sister went to teach in India and became Principal of a girls school. She never married.

My other grandmother worked for Magg's the bookseller in London before her marriage.

Pinkwriter Fri 02-May-25 11:10:43

Surfingsal wrote:
"My maternal grandma ran her own dancing school in London and taught several famous actors to dance , we have lovely photos of her with people like Jack Hawkins , when she wasn't dancing she and her third husband travelled the world (...)"
Wow. It sounds like she was an amazing woman. A dance instructor, and owner of her own Dancing School, and married three times. Another great story for a novel!

Pinkwriter Fri 02-May-25 10:33:03

Luluaugust wrote:
"My maternal grandmother was a trained singer of light opera changing venues weekly. My mum said she had a glorious voice. After marriage all that stopped and she had three children."
Yes, I heard some stories like your grandmother´s. Very talented women who couldn´t continue singing or playing piano after marriage. It was different back then... but still, it´s really sad.

Allira Fri 02-May-25 10:27:53

Pinkwriter

JackyB wrote:
"My paternal grandmother was in service. She married the master's son. He fell in love with her when he heard her singing whilst doing the dishes, or at least that is what I have been told. They were ostracised from the family for that."

JackyB, this is a GREAT story. It could be a novel. Maybe you should write it...

The same story as one of my Great-Aunts. I was relating the tale to a friend once and said her name was E** but the family called her Tottie. "Posh Tottie" said my friend immediately 😃

Pinkwriter Fri 02-May-25 10:25:42

Growstuff wrote:
"One of my grandfather's sisters went to university, which was quite unusual for a woman in those days, and was a history teacher".
Amazing.

jusnoneed Fri 02-May-25 10:19:09

After leaving school my paternal grandmother did a village paper round, she would cycle from where they lived to the nearest station (long gone) about 2 miles away to collect the papers and take them back to the village to deliver. I have a letter from the main papers editor at the time thanking her for her service when she gave it up.
After she married she took in laundry, collecting and delivering - loaded on the pram as my dad and his brothers came along. When they moved back to her home village she didn't go out to work, but she did keep a flock of chickens in the orchard and used to sell the eggs to the old egg marketing board for "pin money".
My maternal grandmother did many different things over the years, one being glove sewing at home when my mums younger siblings were growing up. Well know Somerset sheepskin company, used to deliver boxes full of the cut out pieces - always white fluff around!

Pinkwriter Fri 02-May-25 10:18:51

JackyB wrote:
"My paternal grandmother was in service. She married the master's son. He fell in love with her when he heard her singing whilst doing the dishes, or at least that is what I have been told. They were ostracised from the family for that."

JackyB, this is a GREAT story. It could be a novel. Maybe you should write it...

BlueSapphire Fri 02-May-25 07:30:35

My paternal grandmother left school young and was in service to the Dean of Wells in the 1880s. She returned to her childhood home, married in about 1890, brought up four children and after her husband died kept the village shop and was caretaker of the village 'Reading Room'.

My maternal grandmother I've no idea, as she placed my mother into care when she was about 5. At 14 DM went to live with a family as a mothers help, and they become her new family. My DM had very little to do with her birth family after that, apart from her little brother who was about 3 when he was also placed into care.

DollyRocker Fri 02-May-25 07:15:24

*Upholsteress

DollyRocker Fri 02-May-25 07:13:26

My maternal grandmother was Irish, she trained as a cook but went into an apprenticeship as an pholsterers . She worked on something that was on the Titanic, the deck loungers I believe. Paternal grandmother had 2 shops with my grandfather, a drapers and second hand apparel.

escaped Fri 02-May-25 06:26:06

This is such a lovely thread, talking about real life people of their time. How hard they all worked in their own ways.
(So much more interesting to read than when this was discussed before on GN and resulted in sneering, not by anyone on here now I add).

Wyllow3 Fri 02-May-25 01:17:52

My paternal grandmother worked in a big stately home as a "downstairs" maid and married another servant then he got a factory job but we hardly saw them they lived a long way away.

My maternal grandmother had come over from Ireland.her parent were immigrants, and she was brought up by big sisters and wanted my mum to be "a lady" so off to elocution lessons. Sorry to say she wasn't a warm person.

Macadia Fri 02-May-25 00:44:41

henetha

My paternal grandmother never worked. She was one the older girls in a family of 13 and helped look after her younger siblings until she got married.
I never knew my maternal grandmother.

Your paternal grandmother definitely worked ! She just didnt receive any pay.