I have a keeper here. He brings me breakfast in bed at the weekends but I have to do my own for the rest of the week
Reforms response to Rachel Reeves’ heckler.
I have a keeper here. He brings me breakfast in bed at the weekends but I have to do my own for the rest of the week
Usually DH makes early morning cuppa which we have in bed watching parents and children on school run in our road. Comes with me to keep fit Monday mornings. Spends a lot of time drawing-he is a professional artist (retired art teacher). Is very good about the house and does most of the cooking which he enjoys and I don't. He does supermarket shop on Friday mornings. Friday evening he goes to an art class. He loves sport and will watch any sport on TV. I dislike sport and resent how much it costs to have SKY too but he enjoys it and spends little else. We just bumble along really.
ALL THE WORK!!!!!
Mine watches news and football all day. If he goes to make a cuppa he’ll listen to news or football on the radio in kitchen. He sits in an armchair for 15/17 hours a day...just watching..watching...watching. I go out and walk or read. I walk 5/6 miles a day and swim 4 times a week and still it’s not enough to get the football and news out of my head!! I’m dispairing!!
Lets the cats out in the morning as he gets up first, makes coffee, does most of the building work etc on our still fairly new house. Shares shopping, cooking, washing up with me. Repairs bike punctures. Reads, watches TV, listens to music. Sometimes remembers to let cats in again.
Very little. Watches tv and plays solitaire on his lap top.
My OH still works full time, he still has over three years until he can collect his state pension. When he is at home he reads and watches tv, man programmes and sport. We both enjoy football but support different teams, we have some great discussions !!
He is a good grandad but because of hip problems cannot get down on the floor to play.
He cooks a mean roast but I tend to do the majority of the cooking, cleaning etc.
When we downsized he moved into my sons old house without discussing it. I think he spends most days going to men's meetings or funerals, lunch included. Other days visits his girlfriend,more free meals. He has avoided all babysitting and when reminded it was Millies birthday said Millie who?
Mine never stops working at something or other. He is a perfectionist so takes three times as long as anyone else to do things. He looks after the house and garden , does all the money stuff, helps my son with his work. He does far more than me but never complains. He says I am a lady of leisure as I socialise quite a bit. However at the weekends I get him to come out with me.
He is a devoted grandad. He can drive me mad at times with his exactness but I wouldn’t swap him.
I’m happy not to know but unless something momentous has happened since he walked out I would surmise nothing much?
Elenkalubleton
As the mother of a pro jockey, I get asked many times if I have any tips.
The answer, straight from the horses mouth, is 'no'.
It's all luck, nothing more.
If you work a system and make money, good luck, as that's all it is. Horses have moods just as people do.
There's a chap in our village who cycles round all day, rain or shine, because he got fed up with his wife telling him he was in the way. Sometimes I wish mine would get out from under my feet but that does seem rather extreme.
He walks, rides his bike (but not in Lycra!), volunteers in the local hospital and hospice, church work, does the heavy work in the garden, decorating, some cooking, housework, anything that needs doing really. And he pours my G&T! It’s good to have written all this down, might make me a bit more grateful!
Not a lot at the moment unfortunately as he is on cancer treatment, but there again he has never done a lot since he retired. If I was lucky he would wash up, put the bins out and cut the grass, apart from that sit and sleep, read or watch tv - so not a lot has changed. He always used to cook Sunday breakfast, but that is gradually falling by the wayside as he was in bed asleep till 11am this morning. I know I shouldn't complain as he is going through a lot with frequent hospital visits and a daily drug regime, but I just feel I've lost the man I married. He was always very active, a keen diver and walker, badminton player, but those days are long gone. Sorry if I sound down and moaning! I do count my blessings every day that I am still waking up with him beside me, but it's hard work.
Watches too much Tele!
He reads the Daily Mail online (which is free)! It seems to be regularly updated unfortunately......
In this case it’s what Grandpa doesn’t do. He works part time fitting kitchens and bathrooms, he runs a large community centre, he’s a councillor, deputy mayor, serves on three boards, does school runs for the twins, looks after out two severely disabled grandchildren and does all the cooking, gardening and cleaning. Oh he doesn’t do the washing, but does the ironing. He’s almost 74.
Granddad, in this house, does everything. He cooks, cleans and does the laundry. We have had the garden changed so there is no longer any grass to mow so gardening is restricted to sweeping up of leaves.
His day starts when I wake and he brings me a glass of water for tablets followed by a cup of tea.
I get up at 6 make tea,feed cat,go back to bed make breakfast Have in bed,cat comes in bed.
DH makes coffee.Then he does his horse racing “system”.
If not going out we stay in bed him on lap top,me on iPad
The blessed “system” takes over his whole life, He grows all are fruit and veg in the allotment, and is a kind,generous and funny.Its a second marriage for both of us.We walking with our Burmese cat, DH wears a bag on his back to carry cat when he tires.
My first husband was alcoholic , DH is a gambler. I joke that my 3rd husband may be a womaniser and thenI’ve done a Hat Trick.!He deals with all the household bills and books the holidays.We’ve been together 37 years this week. Apart from the all consuming System. He makes me happy.
Mine is becoming a Mrs Brown's Boys Grandad and its really hard to get him to do anything! He is nearly 86 though!
Mine is pretty busy too - Works harder than me I think. He's on various committees which take up a lot of time, and plays in 3 music groups so practises for them. Other than that he does gardening, car maintenance , helps with shoppin g and housework, recycling, decorating and has some exercise every day (swimming,gym,cycling or walking. ) Oh,and golf. I'm exhausted thinking about what he does while I'm wasting time here on GN!
Before he retired he had no hobbies or interests outside work. He found part time work for a few years while developing interests - he couldn't bear to sit around watching TV.
Grandad here is still at work , but at home he spends all day either playing his ukulele or on Facebook on various groups
My h is a gd, winds up his gd and me, makes us laugh my d thinks he’s great.
Likes to walk, sleep in the afternoon, puzzle books, listening to music and eating, rides his exercise bike.
Not bad a.
He brings me fruit juice and tea in bed. Then follows this up with oats, water for tablets and coffee. I then drag myself from my pit after checking emails and looking at Gransnet and Mumsnet on my iPad. As I occupy myself with these important chores he reads the paper from the day before in the greatest detail. Then he is busy in the garden which he loves and he is ready for orders!!! Other than that we like to go up to London and visit art galleries and other places of interest. He enjoys a walk and so do I. I enjoy painting while he gardens so we are both happy. Oh! I forgot. Most importantly, he puts a hot water bottle in the bed and wraps my nightgown around it. He loads the dishwasher and changes the sheets on the bed. Also hoovers upstairs once a week. Have to say before he retired he didn’t do anything in the house and I used to be up with the lark doing everything in the the house and most of the gardening.
Quite a lot of pottering. And he spends lots of his time in the garage with bits of wood!
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