Twin grandchildren

I refuse to tell anyone which one is the eldest. Always use both names when calling them. Remember that they can help each other get into mischief i.e. one pushing the other into the washing machine; one pushing the other up and over the gate; holding the chair for the other to climb up etc. Good luck

Hi Mary Poppins

I have twin granddaughters now aged 12 and they are an absolute delight. Although identical my daughter has done her best to make them behave and dress completely different from each other, so it is very much like having two different people. One is particularly into cooking and wants to try out new recipes all the time; the other is made about sport and I have to play various forms of football as I refuse to run around too much and don't like the ball hitting my legs.

I would say stick in there and your rewards will come. Mine are very protective of me and often use me as a shoulder to cry on when Mum or Dad upset them.

I am mother to twin daughters, one of whom has two year old twin boys, and the other who has just learned that she, too, is expecting twins! Any hard work and exhaustion is more than compensated by the sheer joy they bring. My grandsons are mischievous and full of energy, and I would struggle to look after them every day, but I am happy to muck in and help with bath time, pick them up from the childminder occasionally and do my share of babysitting.

If I can give a couple of tips, it's to keep bringing along packs of nappies to help out with the family budget. They go through huge amounts, but I find I can help by looking for nappy offers and using my doubled up Tesco points to replenish nappy stocks. Also, assume your daughter will always be experiencing extreme fatigue in the first few months, so provide as many opportunities as you can for her to recharge her batteries.

The happiest times are bedtime stories, funny twin conversations, enthusiastic cuddles, and sitting round the kitchen table making cookies and chocolate cake. Messy but hilarious.

I have 3 year old identical twin grandaughters who are a joy!!
I have looked after them since they were a few months old for long weekends to give Mum and Dad a break. It is hard work, but it does get easier!! Worst bit for me was from the time they were mobile until they learn a bit of sense....10 months to around 2 was often like herding sheep! Now they are a doddle and amuse each other - it is such fun watching them play. I now find them easier than my other pair of grandchildren who are 3 and eighteen months!
I guess it is easier as they are both girls too - one of each would mean different interests
Enjoy them to the full!

It's hard when they both want to be picked up and cuddled at the same time.. I usually end up on the floor or the sofa with them one each side cos I can't lift them both at once! But I have started doing more regular exercise now to strenghten my back and it really helps. I'm even losing weight from all the rushing about and I'm so glad the winter is over as I seem to spend alot of time taking to the park and the duck pond in the pushchair at the moment, where I can relax abit while they watch the baby ducks, we have alot of goboldy-gook conversations along the way and get healthy fresh air.

Marypoppins I will be coming to you for advice! My daughter in England had twins a girl and a boy in March. I went to UK to see them and stayed a month, now rely on photos.

I can't wait to have them here to play with and cuddle.

I am Nanny to twins of four years old ( a boy and girl). I don't look after them very often but do visit once a week. I love every minute I spend with them and their 9 year old sister, but find it very tiring as they both want my attention at the same time. Trying to listen to them all at once sometimes makes my head spin!!!!!

I just love watching them play together which they do very well now. Their big sister is very good with them and doesn't stand any nonsense. I'm retiring soon so maybe I will be asked to look after them, which I will love to do.

I remember when they were babies and I looked after them for a couple of hours, they both started crying at once and I didn't know who to pick up first!

They are a boy and girl and I do appreciate its really wonderful to have this special time with them!
I just need to be prepared for action, try to plan my time with them and enjoy it! ( Then make sure I can have a quiet evening with a glass of wine if needed afterwards.)
I am surprized at how the 'survival instinct' has suddenly kicked-in for them. I've noticed they will give eachother a quick slap or a hair pull from time to time in self-defence if a toy or some food is being snatched away or their space is being invaded when they are not in the mood. Then at other times they will giggle and hug eachother! Its an amazing process.

Hi marypoppins I have twin grandsons who are 4 years old and believe me it does not get any easier as they get older. My two are as different as day and night. One is quite quiet and the other is in to everything, never stops talking and there is no doubt he has a mind of his own. I must say that 95% of the time he is adorable but the other 5% he is a little devil. I watch them one day a week from 8am until 6pm and by the time I go home I am absolutely shattered but on saying that I would not change them for anything. Like Rosannie says CBeebies is a god send, I also get a break of two and a half hours while they are at nursery. What I tell myself is that they will not be that age for long so I try and enjoy every minute I have with them.

Enjoy

Hi, I've twin daughters and twin grandsons who are now 6. I have looked after the boys since they were 6 months old. One long day til they started school and now twice a week after school. I agree with everything being said, particularly about being prepared in advance. As they get older, you will find they entertain each other a fair bit as well. Mainly relax and enjoy the enormous priviledge of time spent with 2 interested and fascinating little people. Boys or girls or both?

Cogratulations marypoppins, twins have always looked and sounded so cute to me but I'm sure the reality is hard work.
I don't have any twins experience but we have acquired 5 grandchildren in the last 4 years, 4 boys aged just 4,3,2, and 1, when they are all here together or even in combinations of any 2 (which they are every day) it's full time vigilance I'm afraid!
Suspend any thoughts of own jobs or interests, prepare as much as you can beforehand (food, nappies, toys etc) and tune in to CBeebies for a break occasionally!
Good luck