sunflower they have one other son, who is a lot younger than my husband and really just enjoys going out drinking & playing on his computer! We've discussed things with him in the past but I know he wouldn't want to talk about his parents feelings to us, I think he'd feel like he was betraying them. They don't really have many interests, nothing like a hobby that stands out. We tend to meet for coffee or at soft play, I think you're right that the warmer weather may provide different options for days out.
etal I think you've misunderstood the content of our time with them, all we do is talk about them and their lives!! We show a lot of interest, I always make sure to follow up with a text about anything that seems important as well. Any texts that are exchanged are purely about them and their lives, so I don't think their distance with us can be put down to us not taking an interest in them. They never ask a thing, about my husband or I or our baby so we spend time talking them. If we don't ask them questions they just sit quietly so we ask about everything to do with them!
eloethan they may be jealous as you suggest, but I can't see why when we are it's them they don't show any interest. I think you're probably right about them not wanting to get too close in case it breaks down again and I can understand that, but it just makes me think what's the point of putting us all through it if we're never going to move forward. In the meantime they are missing so much.
Thanks to you all for taking the time to reply, I think it's a case of fingers crossed for improvement, I just don't know how long we can go on like this x x
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