The kids always loved coming over to our place. The younger was happier at the other GP's to start with , but the oldest knew us better so was more comfortable. Now we've been having them for sleepovers 2x's a week so they can get caught up on their sleep.. The oldest has fought the last 3 times and doesn't want to come to our house. This last time he wanted to go to the other GP's house to stay and the mother let him, but the little one came to our house, but wanted to be with his brother. He calmed down after awhile, but it was quite unsettling for us. The other GP's are their mothers Parents and their dad doesn't live with them anymore. We just don't understand why the oldest makes such a big scene about it as though we are torturing him when he comes.. We always have a great time with him. He does miss his mom when he's away from her and wants his Dad back in the picture.but why want to go to the other GP's. They are older and don't play with him so I don't understand what the attraction would be and why he has to make it sound like we will kill him,