luckygram when I met my husband I felt nothing for him at all and then, over a long period of time, first a friendship and then love grew. Many, many parents and grandparents experience this seeming lack of love when children are born. Give it time, act as though you love him and eventually I expect there will come a day when you realise you love his little socks off. And just in case that doesn't happen then make sure that you're always scrupulously fair with all your grandchildren.