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Writing letters

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vampirequeen Sun 15-Nov-15 16:13:15

I was never very good at writing informal letters. I can write a cracking business letter but chatting in writing just never came naturally to me until emails and texts came along. Suddenly I could write without the restrictions of grammar.

mollie Sun 15-Nov-15 16:09:13

I'd like to see this skill/art encouraged everywhere, especially with the younger generation. I have one almost-five grandchild who lives very nearby but, prompted by another thread here recently, I've begun to send her postcards whenever I see a great picture. She loves getting them and I hope she'll send some to me sometime soon.

Yes, I do think it's worth the time and effort to send a letter. They are personal and timeless and show you care. I've got a stash of letters written by my in-laws during their 1930s courting days and some from my late son which are, of course, truly precious. You can't really keep text messages can you?

stillhere Sun 15-Nov-15 16:06:10

I feel very sorry for an aunt who writes letters to DBH, he barely glances at them. I read them and tell him the abbreviated version. He says his eyes are no longer willing to try to decipher slightly illegible handwriting, he prefers his news typed. I have to admit that it wasn't an aspect I had previously thought of.

TriciaF Sun 15-Nov-15 15:58:05

to distant children and grandchildren.
I was reading an article yesterday about the "art" of letterwriting - just newsy messages written by hand and posted. What a powerful effect they have, rather than emails and texts.
I used to write to ours, now rarely, mainly phone calls, Skype or emails. And sometimes birthday cards with a handwritten note.
I thought I might make the effort to start writing again - I wonder if I'll get any replies?
A sign of how much letters mean to them - I was staying with eldest son and family and borrowed a book from him. He hadn't read this book since his student days, and there was one of my old letters to him used as a bookmark smile
What do you think - do you send letters, and is it worth the effort?