my son divorced his wife recently after years of unhappy marriage but had only stayed so long because of his adored daughter - eventually he decided enough was enough and has left, and is now living on his own. She has poisoned the daughter (14) against her father (witnessed by a number of different people who are shocked at her behaviour), so that she will not speak to him and he doesn't see her despite his constant attempts to do so. I saw her a few times afterwards in the school holidays and all was fine, on the last occasion I asked her why she didnt speak to her daddy and she said it was because it would upset her too much, so I told her that it is ok to be upset and that he loved and missed her, and then we carried on with our day out and all was fine. Out of courtesy I texted the mother to say that I had the conversation so that she was aware - this loosed the hounds of evil and now my granddaughter will not see or speak to me either. Any suggestions? My ex daughter in law will not speak to any of my family, she does answer my texts but that is as far as any communication goes. My son is distraught.
Anger management!!! Help needed.