Hello, I’m wondering if any of you have some experience in this area, either as parents or grandparents, and could possibly offer some advice.
I have a wonderful mil, she is a huge source of love & support to myself & my 8 month old son.
The problem is, over the last couple of weeks my ds cries every time mil holds or gets too close to him. She visits the 2 of us at least once a week, and has done since ds was born, so it’s not a ‘stranger’ issue. He’ll sit happily in his high chair & let mil feed him, and sometimes (but not always) will play with mil from either my knee, or his rocker chair.
Mil used to always rock ds to sleep (I always broke the all naps have to be in Moses basket/cot rule cos she was happy with him sleeping on her), or play with him while I showered or pottered around doing house stuff, she used to love this ‘special nanny time’ as she calls it, but ds just won’t settle with her anymore. My mil is so upset, she actually cried today, because she thinks he hates her. I know it’s a faze, but do any of you have any tips that could speed it along? Or at the very least ways I can support my mil. She goes home to an empty house and I know this is playing on her mind.
Any advice would be welcome, my mil has been amazing since before ds was born, and she loves him so much, I hate how sad this is making her.
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