Hi my daughter has struggled with depression since the birth of her 1st child he will be 10 soon.since the start of last summer holidays my grandson has been a little monster he gets angry for the slightest thing fights and argues with his mum and his sister .As appartley according to him they annoy him .bedtime is a nightmare he kicks off creates when he has had to go to bed waking the younger siblings up As Well as the neighbours on many occasions he hasn't fallen asleep till 2am even later . Many of times I've had to get a taxi up to get him due to the upset he's causing everyone. I know my daughter is finding it hard and it doesnt help that she is suffering with depression and will not seek help for it . To me she doesn't pay attention to what s going on around her all she does is constantly play on her pone.for the first 2 yrs of my eldest grandson life he spent with me due to her feeling low . She never kept her appointments with doctors and the depression has gotten worse .Now she has the oldest kicking off every other nite .And if it's not my daughter wanting me to take him to stay at mine .I've got grandson wanting to come stay at mine . Everyday I'm just say waiting for them to contact me stressing me out while I'm at work .I've lost many days work because of it and my daughter doesn't seem to care . I've said he can come stay with me if she isn't prepared to seek help for herself and try get to the bottom of my grandsons issues .he does seem to have a tamper and gets angry at the slightest things .without the temper tantrums he's normally a very shy boy who I think finds it hard to make friends . It breaks my heart seeing this . My grandson has been with me for over a week now but now my granddaughter wants to stay as Well and I feel awful saying no well that s another thing I've hardly said no . I'm looking into getting him to speak to someone as people have said it sounds like he might have o.d.d. my grandson is fine with me he doesn't create at bed time he's in bed for a reasonable time gets up for school on time .he doesn't seem to have any problems at school . Just seems to be with his mum. Could any one give me any advise on how do i tell my granddaughter she carnt stay with me on a week day without me feeling guilty for leaving her behind . But it's really taking its toll on me having to juggle everything around working full time.
Also any advise as to if having my grandson stay here with me is actually not gonna help the situation and issues he has with his mum
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