Should I babysit for my daughter when Iknow she is going to meet a 'friend' She is married but has told her partner she wants to separate I really dont know what to do One part of me thinks it wrong , but she is so unhappy .
I don’t think I would be comfortable with it. What if her husband asks you questions will you have to lie for her too? Better she sorts out her marriage situation first surely. Not an easy dilemma though.
Sorry, but I would be suggesting that your daughter doesn't embroil you in her deceit. I would not condone any of my children cheating and whilst sympathetic towards a failing marriage I would be urging her to either knock the affair on the head and work on the marriage or to accept that it's over and tell the husband there's another man. Either way there is a role for you as a sympathetic listening ear, but I suspect it's not going to be easy.
I would do it. But I'd also suggest to her that cheating isn't going to make her unhappiness go away , and that she'd be better off either fixing her marriage or leaving. But in the meantime, yes I'd do it.