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shysal Thu 01-Nov-18 09:38:06

Mess is almost essential in my opinion, just protect your surfaces or contain within a tray. I used to provide craft projects, scientific experiments and building dens from chairs and blankets, in which they enjoyed a picnic sometimes made by themselves. You could even play shops with the contents of your cupboards. I bought some lengths of jazzy fabric remnants from Ebay for dressing up and putting on a 'show'.
I am afraid a bit of effort is required, but you will reap the rewards and find it less tiring in the long run if they don't argue. I wish you a good day!

Jane10 Thu 01-Nov-18 09:19:55

Board games can be good old fashioned fun? Plan out the day with meals as markers. Perhaps find a film you can all watch for a couple of hours in the afternoon? Are there chores that they can 'help' with? Might be boring but good life skills.

oldbatty Thu 01-Nov-18 09:11:55

I think you are allowed to feel negative.

My inlaws had my kids for 48 hours and out them in a holiday club for 8 of them!!!!!

sodapop Thu 01-Nov-18 08:44:40

Yes I thought that too Riverwalk. Baking is a good idea and of course children love to put on their boots and go out in the mud. A short treasure hunt for natural items would suit even a lazy child. My grandchildren are now in their twenties and the time went so quickly, enjoy them while you can.

oldbatty Thu 01-Nov-18 08:43:43

I suggest breaking the day up into some sort of activity and then " down time".
If they have pads or pods or whatever they are, let them have them.
Give them a healthy lunch and then a walk to a local shop for sweets?

I wonder why they fight.....

Riverwalk Thu 01-Nov-18 08:26:58

You sound very negative about the whole day grin

Crafts don't have to be messy - I have a big box of card, stickers, paper, sticky tape, crayons, coloured pipe cleaners, etc., and the grandchildren spend hours crafting, occasionally squabbling over the scissors or suchlike!

Even if your local playground is basic at least they can burn off a bit of energy there, followed by some TV, lunch, Lego, and maybe a short walk to local shops for a treat.

kittylester Thu 01-Nov-18 07:45:22

Ours love doing crafts and we contain it in the kitchen. We put anvoilcloth on the kitchen table, provide junk and glue, paints etc. I think grandchildren equate mess.

We also have lots of games and dvds.

We find that we need to have a variety of activities

M0nica Thu 01-Nov-18 07:43:50

Is there a local sports centre or swimming pool?

Mess is what children are all about and you are going to have problems if you want to keep your house mess free. DGC have been spending half term with me. They are much the same age as yours.

We have been cooking, doing needlework (DGD is making herself and a doll matching dresses), raking leaves in the garden, playing with lego, drawing, writing poetry, and, yes, the house is a mess but they are on their way home today and I can tidy the house and get it back to normal in an hour.

tanith Thu 01-Nov-18 07:34:14

How about baking simple recipes and preparing simple meals. Teach them to sew/ knit or go to the library they sometimes have events going on. The countryside can be lovely just wear suitable footwear they’d love being outside exploring using up energy.

watermeadow Thu 01-Nov-18 07:27:24

I have kids aged 7 and 9 all day today and need strategies to stop them trying to kill each other. They fight incessantly.
It’s a dull chilly day and we live in a small town with nothing at all for young kids to do except a basic playground. I don’t drive and there’s nowhere interesting to go by bus except muddy countryside.
Please don’t suggest paints or crafts (too messy) or long walks as one child is very lazy. Heeeeelllllppppp!