This is a long saga sorry about that we have one Son and 2 grown up grandchildren, our son is divorced from the mother of our grandchildren his son who is now 26 has not spoken to his dad since the divorce he is a dad to two daughters who we see once a week, our son wrote to our grandson about 5 years ago and asked if they could meet up and have a drink and a chat he sent the letter back ripped up.
Now our grandaughter who is 28 is getting married in 2020 they came to tell us at the weekend we wished them both all the best, then she started to discuss her wedding showing concern about her brother and dad being in the same room our son assured her it was her day everything would be fine when talking to us she said well I am not inviting any of your sisters bearing in mind they have always sent cards at Xmas and birthdays, I only want people at our wedding that mean something to us.
Then the bomb shell I know you are not going to like it but Mum is giving me away my response was by the sound of things you would be happier if we stayed away her reply was well it would be easier all round, this is a girl who we have been very close to supported her through university etc.
I do understand her concerns but I am finding this very hard to accept that she could be so cruel.
I have posted a card for engagement wishing them all the best
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