Just want to preface I do get on with my daughter in law 
she loves my son very much
My son is our only child
Her mother (cultural reasons and spoiling lol) delivers most of their meals sometimes by herself mostly by her other daughter who is very close to her sister (my daughter in law )
What should I offer to do when baby is born?
I have offered to drive over and pick up laundry (they can leave outside)and I can return the next day
I am quite aware paternal grandparents are usually as close. I just want to make sure I don't do anything wrong
Any suggestions ? Don't want to be pushy but also don't want to seem like we don't care
Is it rude to not finish a book club choice that was selected by someone else?
