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AIBU to ban my 2yr old grandson?

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ReadyMeals Wed 13-Feb-19 11:28:00

Lol crystaltipps :D

Beau Wed 13-Feb-19 11:27:27

My DGS the same age does this at home and at my house - I actively encourage it as I think it's brilliant that he hands over bits of fluff or tiny bits of plastic wrapping rather than doing anything else with them. Ashamed to say I smashed the base of a wine glass the other day and even though I went over the floor with vacuum and cloth he found a piece of glass which had bounced to the other side of the kitchen and handed it over. He loves sweeping, dustpan and brushing, emptying the dishwasher, putting damp clothes in the tumble dryer - all of it seems very helpful to me. He tells his dad off for not closing the stair gate too and then closes it himself ?

crystaltipps Wed 13-Feb-19 11:27:03

Yes ban him until he is 18 and will not notice any fluff in the carpet. ?

Grannybags Wed 13-Feb-19 11:18:54

Yes! He's only two.

My GD used to love sweeping the floor and it was treated as a game. As you say, making more mess, but I find the more fun we have the more mess we make!

ReadyMeals Wed 13-Feb-19 11:14:14

He comes to my house and immediately points out any bit of crumb or fluff on my floor, to make me feel like an inadequate housekeeper. He fetches the dustpan and brush to clean them, which I should feel thankful for, except to add injury to insult he make more mess and mayhem trying to clean than there was already. Would it be unreasonable to stop him visiting until he can accept my home as it is? He turned two last month and has been doing this since he was about 20 months old.