#1 daughter has a son, nearly 13, by one father and then a daughter nearly 4 by her second, later partner. Father of first child is more present as second partner, now divorced, travels a lot for work. The small daughter is often looked after by grandson's dad, not her father. He is the favourite babysitter. Not only that but his family treat his small sister as if his child. At Christmas or other times daughter and both children go and stay with son's father's family and enjoy visiting with all the small cousins. granddaughter is the youngest of a large group of children and all are wonderful to her.
Grandson's father's parents are lovely and that grandma is a wonderful knitter and made beautiful baby things for granddaughter and now for her doll! Small granddaughter loves the whole family and mum and both children have been on holiday to wider family in Italy with them a few times, and to weddings etc. In addition daughter and children are vegan, although dad and family are not, but they make a huge effort and provide very nice vegan food whenever daughter and kids visit.
As long as everyone is loving to the children it all works well. I get a bit jealous as granddaughter has not been on holiday with me, but I do look after her after nursery and did for the last years, so do see her too, as does her grandfather.