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What to be called

(131 Posts)
blue60 Thu 29-Aug-19 18:59:13

An aquaintance of mine is to be a new grandmother next year.

I congratualted her, and we got talking about what she will be called by her grandchild. 'Grandmum' she said.

I haven't heard of that one before. Anyone else heard of or are called by this name?

Callistemon Sat 31-Aug-19 10:13:19

Granny's hideous
And Nanna (sic) was the dog's name in Peter Pan, the dog acting as nursemaid.

Juniper1 Sat 31-Aug-19 10:12:42

Try Grammie

Missiseff Sat 31-Aug-19 10:06:28

Granny's hideous!!! Unless you're the Queen or in your nineties, or both! Hate Grandma with a passion too. I was only 43 when my first step-grandchild was born & I got saddled with it, much to my horror and disgust. I wasn't asked if I minded, and my protestations fell on deaf ears. I still hate it. Thanfully my second step-daughter-in-law had the curtesy to ask me what I wanted to be called, so I chose Nanna, and that is what my own new Grandson will know me as.

hilz Sat 31-Aug-19 10:05:31

One of us is Nanny. One of us is Granny and poor old granddad is known as Grumpy!

jacig Sat 31-Aug-19 10:05:10

My DC called my mum "granny Annie" which she loved until she discovered that was the name of a cartoon crocodile. She tried to change it but by then she 7 DGC and they loved her and her name. ??

Hellsbelles Sat 31-Aug-19 10:00:24

I knew a lady who was mummum to her gc . Apparently it meant mum's mum !

HannahLoisLuke Sat 31-Aug-19 09:52:48

I'm Tatty to my three now adult GC. Their partners also call me that.

Skweek1 Sat 31-Aug-19 09:48:44

We had a Grandma (MIL), Grandpa (FIL - his new partner was younger than me, so insisted on first name!), Grannie (my mum)and DH's grandparentts were Grandma and Grandpa to DH, but DS couldn't get his tongue round Grandpa, so they were Grandmama and Grandpumpa.

Bugbabe2019 Sat 31-Aug-19 09:48:01

Or Gma ?

Bugbabe2019 Sat 31-Aug-19 09:47:20

Oh and my grown up sons call my mother ‘the big G’ ??

Pix5 Sat 31-Aug-19 09:46:46

I hate grant or granny. They sound old and wrinkly. I think it's up to the individual.

Bugbabe2019 Sat 31-Aug-19 09:46:07

I’m going to be called ‘mam’ it’s quite common in Wales. It’s short for ‘mamgu’ ( Mamgee) A lot of people also call their mothers mam as well

BlueBelle Sat 31-Aug-19 06:36:50

I think granny or gran sounds so old I always think of an old fashioned lady with a shawl when the word granny comes up I have a very fun loving modern friend who is Grandma I think that’s awful too very ‘poesh’
what’s so different between grandmum and grandma ( I don’t personally like either)

I was Nanny and now Nan suits me just fine I had a nanny and a granny but granny was old and just sat in her chair nanny was the one that took me everywhere I had a grandad and a Hossie ( his name was Horace)

CocoPops Sat 31-Aug-19 05:28:56

Well, I'd like to b called Bl**dy Marvelous but I'm just Granny.

PepsiMX Fri 30-Aug-19 18:16:37

My ILs call each other mummy and daddy infront of our kids hoping they will copy them. Thank God they havent, i dont want to share being called mummy

ginny Fri 30-Aug-19 18:16:30

I’m quite happy to be Nana to 3 year old DGS and now Nan to ,17 year old DGS. I didn’t want to be Granny or Grandma. However as both the little one and the older both tell me they love me I don’t really care what name they give me.

Maybelle Fri 30-Aug-19 17:35:04

I am Granny to my DGS. I was going to be Grandma, but his other grandmother is Grandma and I didn't want to be Grandma Belle.

I love being Granny and cannot wait for him to start speaking and call me.

LullyDully Fri 30-Aug-19 16:42:20

Quite happy being grandma like my mum and her mother before me. The other grandmother is also grandma but the kids put our first names after to stop confusion if needed.

Never thought one name was posher than another.. Neither have I ever understood why grandmas are older and more prone to knitting than nannies.

ninathenana Fri 30-Aug-19 14:27:57

I wanted to be nana and until oldest was about 3 that was what I was called then he started calling me nannie and his brother followed suit.
I don't like granny, that was what they called my mum.
DH started out as ranran as oldest couldn't pronounce grandad DD and I said that it would stick but he is now grandad.
Confusing as other GP's are called the same.
My friend has one set of GC that have pet names for her and her DH other GC call them grandad and grandma

tanith Fri 30-Aug-19 12:08:52

I was Nanny to my GC for many years but as they grew up they now call me Granny mostly, one of the Grt GC calls me Gaga which is fine too I've no preference as long as they call me lol

Farmor15 Fri 30-Aug-19 11:56:47

Swedish is a fairly literal language, from the little I know. Mother’s mother is mormor and father’s mother farmor. I think nearly all grandmothers are called either of those names. Actually easy for small children to say.

Now you know where my username comes from?. I like being called farmor, but I’m also Granny to my non-Swedish grandchildren.

goldengirl Fri 30-Aug-19 11:41:58

I'm Grandma and quite happy about it. The other grandparents are Nanny and Nana. I quite like Nonna which seems to be around these days. Bit late for me though.

GagaJo Fri 30-Aug-19 11:37:11

I was 52 when I became a grandmother. But I thought granny was the best of a bad job. Gaga is a huge improvement, my clever little chick!

fizzers Fri 30-Aug-19 11:05:01

I am Nanna or Nan or Nanzie (eldest grandson has come out with that one)

Great grandchildren called my mother Grandma so as not to get confused between myself, or my sister (she's also a nan)

Some of my sister's GC's called my mother GeeGee and she absolutely detested being called that

I always called my grandmothers Granny

Calendargirl Fri 30-Aug-19 11:02:26

I became a Granny at 49. I always say if it’s good enough for the Queen.....and no, I am not posh.
Personally dislike Nan or Nanny, sounds like a goat. ?