Thanks everybody for reassuring advice. Parents are due back before childrens’ bedtime but it is a long long afternoon - the little ones are being so good, I wonder if they sense poor old granny is under par. We are playing ‘pairs’ game and the 5 year old is letting me win!! I think I will mention I have a sniffle and say I hope the children don’t catch it - and leave it at that. Good advice from you all. I feel better just having shared how I am feeling - sympathy has helped no end!
Times article claim that Waspi women are tone deaf and should read the room



