I don’t get along with my sil we are just very different people. Nothing huge no massive row it’s just lots of little things. I find her rather babied and over bearing contact wise. If I hadn’t of married her brother I wouldn’t be her friend. I am civil but do find myself trying to avoid going to my in-laws if I know she’s going to be there. Dh also sees her as the golden favoured child out of them both to his parents. Which I also see repeating in the actions towards the grandchildren. Mil has tried once to engage sil and dh together as if they where little children again and that blew up spectacularly in her face where dh let out a lot of his views on his mother and sister.
I’d stay well back and be neutral, don’t force anything and make sure your not taking sides even accidentally in the case of spending too much more time with the other either. The resentment my dh has is huge and when the in-laws die I see him going no contact with his sister if he doesn’t before.
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