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Playing the waiting game (grandchild due)

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Newbiegran Sun 12-Jul-20 09:43:26

I'm a soon to be (and anxious) first time gran. Due date was 11 July - DD had sweep on Thursday and is booked for induction (routinely; midwife said prob wont get that far) on 23. July. She's 200 miles away and I am thinking and wondering about her constantly. She was born 8 days late and I recall my mother really annoying me by ringing up every day asking Have you had it yet? Even though I promised I would call as soon as it happened - so I am very loath to get in touch with DD (we use Whatsapp fairly regularly) as I guess she is waiting too. I find myself constantly checking my phone, worrying if she is OK .. any tips on how to handle this waiting game (especially at a distance?)

Gelisajams Wed 22-Jul-20 22:16:56

Congratulations to all. Enjoy him!

Grannyben Wed 22-Jul-20 22:10:52

Congratulations to you all. I can stop checking now and go to bed.

vickya Wed 22-Jul-20 22:08:08

Well done mum. That is a big baby! And congratulations new gran and all the best to you all.

geekesse Wed 22-Jul-20 21:45:29

Congratulation and joy to the new gran and to all concerned! Thank you for allowing us to share your experience.

SueDonim Wed 22-Jul-20 21:41:21

Congratulations! I wish you all well and hope you get to see the not-so-little chap soon. ??

Moth62 Wed 22-Jul-20 21:36:47

Woop woop! Well done to all concerned. My second son was 9lbs and a long long labour, so I can fully empathise with the poor exhausted mother! Have a glass of champagne ? to wet the baby’s head. Would it be too nosy to ask you to let us know how he’s doing and any names? ?

Lizbethann55 Wed 22-Jul-20 21:33:03

Congratulations!!! Sleep well!! Love and best wishes. Xxx

Jamie Wed 22-Jul-20 21:30:26

Many Congratulations on the birth of your first Grandchild and welcome to the 'Granny' club. Hope all is well.
Wishing you much happiness.Enjoy.

Jane10 Wed 22-Jul-20 21:29:24

Congratulations Gran! 9lbs 5ozs!! That's a whole lot of baby. All the more for you to love. Well done that Mum too.
Forget the wine, break out the bubbly!

Greenfinch Wed 22-Jul-20 21:28:34

Congratulations! Exactly the same as me 9lb 5 oz boy by Ventouse. I can fully empathise with the long labour. Glad all is well.

Lolo81 Wed 22-Jul-20 21:28:33

Congratulations!

Newbiegran Wed 22-Jul-20 21:26:50

And a big Thankyou to everyone who has really kept me going. I shall start being part of this community nowsmile

Newbiegran Wed 22-Jul-20 21:24:17

It's the wine that did it!!!
Boy 9 lb 5 oz by Ventouse - all well - mother exhausted!
Time for bed!!

SueDonim Wed 22-Jul-20 21:14:02

:paces up and down hall: :lights another cigarette: ???

Newbiegran Wed 22-Jul-20 21:07:53

I'm on the wine now LOL ( I don't actually approve of drinking to calm nerves but - desperate times!!!)

Bluecat Wed 22-Jul-20 20:54:40

Waiting for news really feels worse, in some ways, than going through it yourself. You can't help imagining and guess what is happening.

I have been through it seven times and the last one was as bad as the first!

Hang on and try not to worry too much. Easier said than done, I know.

Jane10 Wed 22-Jul-20 20:48:44

Poor girl. She's had quite a time of it. Hope it's all safely over soon.

Newbiegran Wed 22-Jul-20 20:47:39

I literally don't know what's keeping them - nearly two hours since they said assisted delivery or c-section! I would have assumed there was some element of urgency in there ...

Grannyben Wed 22-Jul-20 20:37:17

Really hoping your daughter gets a move on ?. I'm going to bed at 10

Moth62 Wed 22-Jul-20 19:41:13

On tenterhooks here with you, Newbiegran!! As I’m sure are many others. ?

B9exchange Wed 22-Jul-20 19:38:04

Really hoping for good news soon, you must be shattered with worry yourself. I am sure by tomorrow you will be on cloud nine!

SueDonim Wed 22-Jul-20 19:12:08

Hope the baby is with you soon! Xx

Newbiegran Wed 22-Jul-20 19:04:28

Ok update at 7pm UK time- via her partner via his mum - she is going in for possible assisted delivery (I assume that's forcept?) or C-section. I am assuming she is too tired to push or baby is getting tired.

nexus63 Wed 22-Jul-20 17:56:57

my first grandson was due on the 12 feb last year by c-section same day i was getting a cancerous tumor removed, problem with hospital and she had to wait till 13th, we texted back and forward asking each other how we were doing and talked on facebook, i could not see him till he was 4 weeks old, due to him having breathing problems. just send you daughter a message to say you are thinking of her and you are there if she wants to chat. good luck and hugs when the little one arrives xx

123kitty Wed 22-Jul-20 16:25:28

I know we're all different but I was induced and had my DS without even needing gas and air, it was all over in a few hours. By the way I'm the most cowardly person I know when it comes to pain. So try to relax. You'll soon be enjoying cuddling your new little one, it's worth the wait.