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Playing the waiting game (grandchild due)

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MamaBear20 Tue 21-Jul-20 22:53:54

What an exciting time! I’m sure your daughter appreciates you not asking her constantly if the baby is here yet, but maybe you could call her and see if there’s anything she needs to make her more comfortable, or distract her with other conversation.

AGAA4 Tue 21-Jul-20 16:55:07

I know it can be a worrying time Newbiegran but it will be so exciting when your Grandchild arrives.

Hope all goes well for your daughter. Enjoy your time with the new baby. There is nothing quite as wonderful as holding him or her for the first time.

Lolo81 Tue 21-Jul-20 14:31:03

Hope everything goes well for your daughter! Just wanted to chime in and say I was induced with both of mine and was terrified because, like your daughter I’d heard it was awful. Although I have nothing to compare it with, I managed both of mine with just gas and air and my labours weren’t as bad as I’d worried about. I had the pessaries to start contractions and had my daughter after 12 hours and my son came after only 4 hours, so if it comes up please reassure her that inducement isn’t always as terrible as it’s portrayed to be.
Let us know how she gets on? And congrats on your impending GC x

Missfoodlove Tue 21-Jul-20 13:39:13

Our daughter is due to have a C section on 28/7.
We are praying there is no early labour?
My heart leaps every time the phone rings.
We are going on Monday to look after our lovely granddaughter while she’s in hospital but don’t want an emergency dash down beforehand.

Newbiegran Tue 21-Jul-20 12:35:44

If baby doesn't come today or tomorrow then daughter has appointment to be induced Thursday - which she's not looking forward to as she has heard it's not pleasant - and the baby is very big. Sigh. Still waiting...

Newbiegran Tue 14-Jul-20 13:59:37

Thanks! Baby was due last Saturday -daughter still around on Whatsapp - still waiting smile

luluaugust Sun 12-Jul-20 12:33:14

ps good luck with the new arrival

luluaugust Sun 12-Jul-20 12:32:06

Just because your MIL annoyed you I don't see that stops you speaking to your DD occasionally over the next however many days or she may phone you for a chat. Glad you have WhatsApp to get some news. It is always an anxious time after the due date so yes keep as busy as you can.

Lolo81 Sun 12-Jul-20 11:14:34

Try and busy your mind doing other things? Maybe a book or a tv series? Or some organising you’ve been meaning to get to. Well done you for putting your DD and her needs first, not every expectant Grandparent can do that and I’m sure DD will appreciate the fact that you’ve been so respectful and considerate.

Newbiegran Sun 12-Jul-20 09:43:26

I'm a soon to be (and anxious) first time gran. Due date was 11 July - DD had sweep on Thursday and is booked for induction (routinely; midwife said prob wont get that far) on 23. July. She's 200 miles away and I am thinking and wondering about her constantly. She was born 8 days late and I recall my mother really annoying me by ringing up every day asking Have you had it yet? Even though I promised I would call as soon as it happened - so I am very loath to get in touch with DD (we use Whatsapp fairly regularly) as I guess she is waiting too. I find myself constantly checking my phone, worrying if she is OK .. any tips on how to handle this waiting game (especially at a distance?)