My 4 adult children all have young children of their own. When they were children themselves, their father, my then husband, got really into (adult NOT children) pornography. I found magazines and sex toys and kinky lingerie brochures repeatedly lying around the house, he spent hours every night on porn sites (again, showing adults NOT children), and I found nude photos of himself that he was putting on the web.
I was constantly running around hiding these things from my children and got him out of the house as soon as I could.
The professionals I went to for advice told me what I already knew, that there was a real risk that my children could be damaged if they saw this stuff. One said he would call social services if I couldn't get my then husband out quickly.
Even later, when we visited his new house I had to rush around hiding material.
Should I warn my children not to let my grandchildren visit their granddad's home? If I tell them about their father, it will obviously distress them but I don't want my grandchildren introduced to inappropriate material.
This is a genuine post, a genuine worry, so please don't berate me.
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