Hi myself and my husband regularly take short videos when our grandson stays with us. We use them to share with his parents and other grandparents (who live in another country) and I know they love receiving them - understandably. These are done from our phones when we are out at the park or when he's learned to use a ride on toy car and more recently he's started using a balance bike or when we are visiting the farm etc. As well as sharing them (only with his parents and other grandparents - just to be clear I never post these on public media platforms) he himself very often asks to watch them - because he's usually having so much fun - he loves to watch them over and over again and giggle and laugh with us. However, recently my son told me to stop showing them to him as he's becoming 'too dependent' on watching them. I was so taken aback I didn't find any words to respond but it really upset me as I think there's an underlying problem - ie that he loves being with us and always has fun times with us and that somehow this is resented. I don't even understand what he means by this. I've googled it to see if its unhealthy - and all I can find is that it does exactly what we see - it builds his confidence and he can reflect on how well he's doing. My sons girlfriend hasn't said anything though I feel she is often not happy with me and I suspect this 'rule' that we can't let him watch the videos of himself has actually came from her. They rely on us completely as her family live in another country. I won't even begin to explain how much support we've given them and accepted her into the family unconditionally right from the outset. I do anything to help all of them as a family or individually. They are supported financially and in every other way. I helped her with a few interviews as she wanted to better herself and leave the job she had, and she's recently secured a good job. I have felt for a while that we are being taken for granted - or even abused and now I'm feeling angry at this latest 'rule'. I haven't discussed it with them. We never feel appreciated. More than anything though - how do I stop her feeling jealous of the great relationship we have with our grandson. I really don't think my son is the one who has a problem with it.
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