I've been in a relationship for over 10 years. We live separately for various reasons. Our ultimate goal was to someday live together in our senior years once my children left home. Both my daughters are now out on their own.
Well my eldest daughter had a baby 11 months ago she is a single mother she lives close to me. The man that I'm in a relationship with lives about 35 miles away. Our plan was for me to move in with him but now I'm Torn because I would be leaving her and my grandchild. I just want to be there for them. I watch granddaughter once a week plus when needed. My partner does not want to live at my house.
He doesn't see what the problem is because I would still be within 40 minute drive but I just feel like I need to be closer to her in case she needs help. I'm also struggling with the idea of selling my house. I just don't know what to do.
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