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Heavy school bags carried by children (a massive future problem!)

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GrannyLondonSW8 Sat 06-Jul-24 18:33:22

Can I ask how many other grandparents are worried about the weight of their grandchildren's backpacks they cart to and from school? And the toll it takes/will take on their backs in later life.
I've offered to buy my three a pilot type pull-along version so there is the option of using either method when appropriate. One grandchild has a long hill to climb and when I collet her I can barely carry hers it is so heavy what with her school computer and homework books. However a pull-along type is against her school's policy. At my grandson's school parents are obliged to buy the school's own backpack and a pull-along design is not a feature. He says he dreads sports days as the kit, football boots etc together with a computer and homework books, makes his load so heavy he's practically crippled. The teachers don't seem to be sympathetic. The other school children say the same. I wonder if we can get together and encourage secondary schools heads to change their minds and allow the short 'stick' pull-along backpack models? On Amazon they are under £50.

red1 Mon 08-Jul-24 12:09:33

state funded trolleys for children will save a fortune in future nhs costs? remember children with paper rounds carrying even heavier bags. I still see my postman probably 60 now, carrying a heavy bag , trolleys are an option or even bikes, why not? probably profit motivated!

Iwtwab12bow Mon 08-Jul-24 12:00:02

American schools provide lockers. That may be the way to go here.

Mojack26 Mon 08-Jul-24 11:49:29

Absolutely not! 🤣

staceygrove Mon 08-Jul-24 11:19:19

My grandson has just completed the silver Duke of Edinburgh. His rucksack was the same weight as the marines carry, first day walking 19 km second day 20km and 3rd 18km. I don't know how he did it . The girls had to carry the same. Very proud of him though.

grannytotwins Mon 08-Jul-24 11:14:50

My grandson was very premature and in year 7 he’s still very small. He has constant back pain from carrying his school backpack. I can’t lift it. He leaves as much as possible in his locker and it’s still far too heavy for him.

Grammaretto Mon 08-Jul-24 09:17:42

My DB was until his recent retirement, a teacher in a Gymnasium (a 6th form college) in Denmark .
He brought a group of his students to England and they visited a couple of schools including Manchester Grammar school.
The things that surprised the Danes most were
A) single sex school
B) uniforms
C) writing everything in exercise books and not laptops.

JackyB Mon 08-Jul-24 08:04:01

We used to keep our books in our desks in our classroom. That wouldn't work these days, but lockable lockers like the Americans have should be possible. Kids would have to learn to organise themselves so that they only carry what they really need that day, and sort out what they don't need leaving just their books for homework.

And if they're carrying laptops with them why do they need books at all? Can't they just download the necessary materials onto the laptops?

Grammaretto Mon 08-Jul-24 06:35:12

I thought work/ text books were all going online so there would be no need for back breaking loads.

No wonder so many DC are driven to school.

One of my sons used to come home at lunchtime to dump his morning books.

Interesting about fashions and changes in attitudes.

I guess when prams were first invented, women who carried their bairns in shawls thought it very odd to see babies being pushed around in vehicles grin.

maddyone Mon 08-Jul-24 00:15:09

Can you imagine 500 or more children pulling along wheeled trolleys in school. Imagine the chaos at lesson change time. There would inevitably be accidents with children falling over other children’s trolleys. It would be a recipe for chaos and accidents.

Callistemon213 Sun 07-Jul-24 22:47:19

I remember carrying a picnic basket home , with my cauliflower cheese from school. It was nearly 2 miles

Debbi 😂

I never saw what my children produced in Home Economics, they always ate it before they got home.

Yes, they've always got their heads bent over phones.

Wheniwasyourage Sun 07-Jul-24 22:15:08

I can’t see that pulling a load on wheels can be better than carrying it in a backpack with both straps worn properly. The pull-along bag will need the puller to twist a bit and the load will be on one side or the other, while on the backpack the load will be balanced. I have used a backpack for shopping, including heavy items, since I had an episode of sciatica in 2001 and, touch wood, not had problems. I do always use both straps though.

Debbi58 Sun 07-Jul-24 16:51:53

I'm more concerned about their necks , they walk along heads bent over mobile phones. I 've lost count over the amount of young people I've nearly collided with , school bags are ridiculously heavy though. I remember carrying a picnic basket home , with my cauliflower cheese from school. It was nearly 2 miles

eazybee Sun 07-Jul-24 15:03:21

Do schoolchildren wear the backpacks with both straps over their shoulders; this considerably lightens the strain by distributing the load? I discovered this after years of carrying heavy loads hanging from one shoulder.
Have you ever been in a school at lesson change-over time, and can you imagine hundreds of children dragging tartan trollies behind them like grannies in the supermarket?
Your grandson needs to grow up; nearly crippled my foot.

Mollygo Sun 07-Jul-24 14:47:42

LOUISA1523
Actually you do know now, and you can add me to your list.
I was referred for treatment for scoliosis as a teen, the cause given as carrying a heavy school bag on one shoulder.
Later, as a teacher, a physiotherapist recommended that I get a pull along like those mentioned earlier to help with my shoulder/back problems or at least balance the bags on both sides.
Strangely enough I found an excellent one in the school section in France. Perhaps they recognise the problems caused by heavy bags.

nanna8 Sun 07-Jul-24 10:57:20

They lug laptops around in their school bags as well. I couldn’t even lift the bags my grandchildren tote around. My Mum used to say you would get a dropped womb if you carried heavy loads like that. She did get one herself,too - never learnt to drive so she used to lug it on and off buses.

Chestnut Sun 07-Jul-24 10:49:12

How would anyone know their back problem was caused by carrying heavy school bags? It could be any number of reasons or just genetic.

DamaskRose Sun 07-Jul-24 10:38:59

Callistemon213

^don't know anyone who has had a long term back issue from carrying a school bag as a child^

Well, I do, LOUISA1523

Me too Callistemon! Me!
In DGD’s school lockers have to be paid for. Full disclosure - we’re in Scotland and education is devolved.

Callistemon213 Sun 07-Jul-24 10:30:42

Mine wouldn't have been seen with a pull-along trolley.

No wonder one of my DD constantly 'firgot' to take her cookery ingredients, but it was me who got into trouble with the Home Economics teacher.

Callistemon213 Sun 07-Jul-24 10:28:19

don't know anyone who has had a long term back issue from carrying a school bag as a child

Well, I do, LOUISA1523

Callistemon213 Sun 07-Jul-24 10:25:35

Heavy school bags, insufficient lockers for the number of pupils, insufficient time to dash between classrooms at lesson change, all were problems when my DC were at school and continue today with the DGC.

When I was at school aeons ago, the teacher came to our classroom, apart from for certain lessons eg Science which were held in the laboratory. Books etc remained in our own desks apart from those we carried ome for homework.

Our GP called it "Paperboy's Back".
Children can have growth spurts which can mean the bones have not fully developed from cartilage, cartilage can be bent resulting in pain and sometimes permanent damage to hips, shins and backs.

Oreo Sun 07-Jul-24 10:19:49

NotSpaghetti

Would you be seen dead with a roll-along sort as a teen?
grin

If it was requested by enough schools it would fast become the new norm.
Kids are sheep where fashions are concerned.

Chestnut Sun 07-Jul-24 10:18:15

JTH65

I understand your concerns and feel you are a lovely caring nanny. Having read the other comments I’m
Sure they’ll be ok. You could always ask if they’d like to try a different bag that can be pulled along? I can guess their answer though. Us grandparents worry about things that our own children think is daft but I think it’s because we are older and have that life experience and we try to protect our loved ones from things that we know could affect their future life. There’s nothing wrong with loving and caring ♥️

I agree with this comment. I have worried about heavy school bags whereas it seems most people think it's okay. We might think there should be a weight limit above which it is unacceptable, but how would you weigh the bag before school?

You're in a difficult situation as grandparent because any attempt to discuss school policy may need to go through the parents. They may need to engage with other concerned parents about this. Maybe a WhatsApp group?

You say the school has its own school bag, so I hope this is a good design suitable for heavy weights. If the weight is too much on certain days then maybe carry another bag to spread the weight. Musial instruments and sport equipment usually have to be carried separately anyway. I'm a bit surprised they have to carry a laptop as well because these are sometimes quite heavy, and rather a valuable item for children to be walking around with.

The most important thing I would be campaigning for are lockers at school. There is no excuse for not having these, room must be found. They are so important. I think it's crazy making children carry all this stuff around.

Calendargirl Sun 07-Jul-24 10:13:51

Some days we had a satchel, PE kit case and a cookery basket to manoeuvre on the same day, getting on and off buses.

I suppose the weight was more evenly distributed though.

Skydancer Sun 07-Jul-24 10:12:31

Schools should provide lockers.

Nandalot Sun 07-Jul-24 10:08:48

My DGC , at secondary school, don’t even have lockers so they are carrying the weight around all day.