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Heavy school bags carried by children (a massive future problem!)

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GrannyLondonSW8 Sat 06-Jul-24 18:33:22

Can I ask how many other grandparents are worried about the weight of their grandchildren's backpacks they cart to and from school? And the toll it takes/will take on their backs in later life.
I've offered to buy my three a pilot type pull-along version so there is the option of using either method when appropriate. One grandchild has a long hill to climb and when I collet her I can barely carry hers it is so heavy what with her school computer and homework books. However a pull-along type is against her school's policy. At my grandson's school parents are obliged to buy the school's own backpack and a pull-along design is not a feature. He says he dreads sports days as the kit, football boots etc together with a computer and homework books, makes his load so heavy he's practically crippled. The teachers don't seem to be sympathetic. The other school children say the same. I wonder if we can get together and encourage secondary schools heads to change their minds and allow the short 'stick' pull-along backpack models? On Amazon they are under £50.

JTH65 Sun 07-Jul-24 09:30:49

I understand your concerns and feel you are a lovely caring nanny. Having read the other comments I’m
Sure they’ll be ok. You could always ask if they’d like to try a different bag that can be pulled along? I can guess their answer though. Us grandparents worry about things that our own children think is daft but I think it’s because we are older and have that life experience and we try to protect our loved ones from things that we know could affect their future life. There’s nothing wrong with loving and caring ♥️

GrannySomerset Sun 07-Jul-24 09:29:24

Have those advocating pull along packs ever watched a group of teenage boys? As a weapon for flooring your friends nothing could be more effective!

LOUISA1523 Sun 07-Jul-24 09:21:25

Its a tale as old as time....I'm 59 and carried a heavy bag with books, pe kit, swim kit, and I carried it all on my back whilst cycling to school...my 3 kids did too....even my 3 GD at primary school now, carry heavy water bottles, bag with reading books, swim kit and a lunch bag .....no kid I know is going to pull along a bag......totalky uncool.....when the girls hit high school, ice found they often opt for shoulder bags , so even worse strain on their backs....but they are young they are strong.....don't know anyone who has had a long term back issue from carrying a school bag as a child

Bumface Sat 06-Jul-24 21:10:33

Jaxjacky

And is your daughter ok Bumface?

She suffered from back pain when she was pregnant and when she was carrying her boys around as babies but I think she is OK most of the time now.

I used to check her bag to make sure she was not carrying around anything unnecessary that had just been left in there when she was younger.

Mollygo Sat 06-Jul-24 21:00:47

Our bags were heavy and we were advised to use back packs to avoid scoliosis.
I lugged books, a tuba, and cookery stuff on the worst day of the week.
I picked up my granddaughter the other day and she had a school bag with her laptop in plus cookery stuff plus PE kit. Seems like nothing has changed.

Jaxjacky Sat 06-Jul-24 20:29:54

And is your daughter ok Bumface?

westendgirl Sat 06-Jul-24 20:28:18

As an afterthought my books were heavy when I was teaching.

westendgirl Sat 06-Jul-24 20:27:26

My satchel was always very heavy. All my text books were hard back in the 50's. we managed and with hockey/ tennis bags too.I doubt pupils would take to a pull along .

Bumface Sat 06-Jul-24 20:24:46

When my daughter was at school, she is in her thirties now, I became very concerned about the weight of her backpack.

I found out that in Italy, at the time, they had a policy that school children were not allowed to carry more than a certain weight, I can't remember what it was. The schools regularly check weighed schoolbags as they were concerned about back strain.

I am now concerned about the same issue with regard to my three GS who all carry backpacks to school. It would appear that this issue has never been addressed in British schools and I agree with GLSW8 that it should be. I am not sure if the introduction of pull along packs is the way forward or simply putting a limit to the age appropriate weight of a normal backpack.

NotAGran55 Sat 06-Jul-24 19:56:42

My boys carried their stuff in good quality back packs with no problems.
All the usual stuff, plus cookey ,sports boots etc and guitars.
Good training for when they went off travelling.

The only time they entertained a pull along thing was to go to festivals to cart all the beer!

Germanshepherdsmum Sat 06-Jul-24 19:53:17

My satchel was very heavy. Spreading the load with a backpack is probably much better but we didn’t have that option in the 60s. Ditto a very heavy briefcase when working. I survived, as I guess did most.

NotSpaghetti Sat 06-Jul-24 19:47:33

My daughter at art school bought a "granny trolley". The tall brick shaped ones in coated fabric - a huge one.

I don't think she'd have used it at school age though.

mokryna Sat 06-Jul-24 19:36:58

I bought a pull along one for my DD at her request, she used it one day and then went back to her old one.

Whiff Sat 06-Jul-24 19:34:53

My school bag was heavy when I was at school until 18. I am now 66. Carrying my bag didn't damage my back .

Visgir1 Sat 06-Jul-24 19:33:34

Not a new problem my Children now both in their 30's had heavy bags, they coped and are fine.
If a back pack is put in correctly, it's not a problem.
Pull along cabin bag, I don't think so No teenager is going to have one of them.

BlueBelle Sat 06-Jul-24 19:20:09

No kid is going to pull along a bag
Kids have always had heavy bags, paper rounds before school too I saw one paper boy swing to get his bag on his back and swung himself right off his feet
My grandkids had bags I could hardly lift they’re all ok don’t forget our little 12 /14 year olds a generation ago were at work on boats, down mines, on building sites
My great grandad had to have a box to stand on at a bench but he went on to be a bare knuckle boxer who ran miles a day
They ll be ok I m sure

crissy Sat 06-Jul-24 19:13:32

I think if they are taught to wear them properly from an early age - and that includes using front chest and waist straps - they will grow and adapt to the load. After all that is how knights of olde became used to their heavy armour from a very early age.

Greta Sat 06-Jul-24 19:06:33

NotSpaghetti

Would you be seen dead with a roll-along sort as a teen?
grin

All it needs is that one 'cool' kid starts using a pull-along backpack and they will all follow.

Jaxjacky Sat 06-Jul-24 19:03:56

I agree NotSpaghetti you’d be an object of fun.
Bags have been like this for a good many years, plenty of time for any long term damage to have been discovered and sadly ended up with a damages claim.
One of the trials of schooling I’m afraid, they’ll survive.

Ilovecheese Sat 06-Jul-24 19:03:45

I think it is very bad for their backs, but I do agree with NotSpaghetti

NotSpaghetti Sat 06-Jul-24 19:00:28

We had heavy bags too.
An expandable briefcase...
And in my case an A0 art portfolio!

My friend took a cello.

NotSpaghetti Sat 06-Jul-24 18:58:12

Would you be seen dead with a roll-along sort as a teen?
grin

Deedaa Sat 06-Jul-24 18:53:35

Back in the 60s my mother used to worry about the weight of my school bag, and that was in the days when we could leave most of our stuff in our desks.

rafichagran Sat 06-Jul-24 18:49:02

No, I always carried a heavy bag. My Grandson will do the same, he will start year 7 in September. Not looking for things to worry about, he will be OK.

Ladyleftfieldlover Sat 06-Jul-24 18:48:51

Decades ago when I did a paper round, the bag supplied by the newsagent was incredibly heavy. Especially on a Saturday and Sunday. My father made me a metal container on wheels, which was perfect.