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Friend happy she has no grandchildren as world is scary place

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Fleurpepper Sun 24-Nov-24 10:23:53

I mean, I really fear for my granchildren.

Fleurpepper Sun 24-Nov-24 10:23:20

Yes.

ferry23 Sun 24-Nov-24 10:21:47

I was just talking to a friend about this yesterday. I have no grandchildren and I've never had a burning desire to be a Grandmother. I'm sure if I did have them, I'd love them to pieces and spoil them rotten but it's never worried me. My children may or may not have made a conscious decision. I don't know, it's not my business.

If you take a step back then you can see the world has always been a scary place and probably always will be. War, drought, famine etc - have always been with us.

Conversely, the world wouldn't continue without procreation and humans will always have a desire to reproduce.

It leads to bigger questions like should women living in extreme poverty without basic facilities such as clean water be having children?

And who are we to judge?

It's a personal choice of course whether to bring children into the world, but if I had my time again I may choose not to have children but it wouldn't be because of the state the world was in.

Cambsnan Sun 24-Nov-24 09:56:11

A conversation with a grandchildless friend left me unsettled. She said how glad she was that she had no grandchildren as the world is in such a desperate state. Is she right? If you were young would you bring a a baby into this world?