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Welcome to the *Gransnet Café. This is a non-judgemental space for you to pop in for a cuppa with some virtual friends, seek out advice for a particular problem, or share an update on your life - important or trivial. Feel free to have your say and chat about your day, but please leave any arguments at the door. If you're struggling to find someone to talk to in real life, or are simply looking for a bit of a chat, this is the place for you.

Welcome to new members

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LaraGransnet (GNHQ) Wed 16-Sept-15 14:24:57

If you're new to Gransnet please do make yourself a brew and come introduce yourself on this thread. Hope you enjoy chatting in the forums and that you find it useful, informative, supportive and entertaining. smile

shysal Fri 02-Sept-16 15:11:02

I like it! grin

grannylyn65 Fri 02-Sept-16 14:57:00

Well, a few years ago was visiting daughter and GC, not a very nice area! GC playing outside and I went out to see if ok. Some older children shouted out 'Oh look, its F*****g Old Granny!! thence was born the soubriquet of FOG !!

grannylyn65 Fri 02-Sept-16 14:32:33

blushblush

shysal Thu 01-Sept-16 09:15:58

grannylyn, grin Do tell the story!

grannylyn65 Wed 31-Aug-16 18:00:23

Like being 'Granny' am known as FOG by GC dahn sarf, long (and rude) story !!

LullyDully Thu 25-Aug-16 07:41:44

I have always wondered why Nanny sounds younger than grandma, same difference to me. I know that's what my mil said.but I never understood why......Just asking. Welcome to all newcomers, have fun.

shysal Wed 24-Aug-16 18:37:37

Welcome Peaseblossom and a belated Hello to Curlynana14, glad you have come through the tough times. Also to TQMSouthend if you are staying as a normal participant. GN has strict rules on advertising, but see Elegran's post of 11.44. This is a great place for advice, information, memories and, above all, fun. Enjoy!

Elegran Wed 24-Aug-16 13:25:38

Well, I'd hate to called nanny, I'd feel I ought to wear a starched apron and eat in the servants' hall. Both my grandmothers were called Granny, so I associate the name with pleasant memories.

Each to his own.

Peaseblossom Wed 24-Aug-16 12:34:02

I'd hate to be called granny or grandma, it sounds ancient. I am called nanny and my first name and so is my granddaughter's other nanny.

Elegran Wed 24-Aug-16 11:44:52

If you go to the Gransnet Local site for your area (and/or the ones for neighbouring areas), you can get a listing free.

TQMSouthend Wed 24-Aug-16 11:35:44

Hi I joined last weekend and responded to a lady who was looking for entertainment for her elderly group. However, what I wrote was obviously regarded as too much like I was selling my services. Later I received an email stating I should take an ad out! However, I charge very little for my services and often do gigs FOC. Hence, don't have funds for ads. So! How do I get to reply to such queries if they are going to be deleted???

Curlynana14 Wed 24-Aug-16 08:10:13

I'm not really new as I joined in 2012. I've had to rejoin as I have forgotten my password and changed my e-mail address a while back. I love reading all the posts even though i haven't posted much myself (quite shy really!) I was diagnosed with bowel cancer when I first joined here and was so comforted and supported by all of the lovely ladies on here, I have been such a great fan of GN since. I often check in to have a read of posts so thought I would make myself known again. Four years on from my diagnosis I am doing well by the way - I am very fortunate. I now have 8 DGC - 4 of each, ranging from 2 months to age 12.

shysal Wed 17-Aug-16 09:17:02

Hi nanatobe, welcome flowers. You will find plenty of sensible advice on here if you need it. I hope it won't be necessary. Enjoy the years of fun ahead with your GC(s).

nanatobe Wed 17-Aug-16 07:18:29

Hi all, have been readings the threads with interest. What a lively lot you are! Love it. My daughter is expecting and due near Christmas, I also have a step daughter who gave birth 6 months ago. That relationship is not without its problems and I think I will need some sage advice on how to move forward with step daughter especially now my DD is pregnant. Looking forward to joining in.

shysal Mon 15-Aug-16 09:49:46

Welcome Madmeg flowers. I hope you will enjoy Gransnet. There are a lot of people on here who have very difficult relationships with their families, so I count my blessings. I have the same situation as you with younger daughter and 3 boys. I don't see them very often, but the other grandparents are nearby and see them all the time. Part of the problem is that I don't want to be a nuisance when they have such busy lives.
I just tell myself that as long as I know they are all right I am happy.

Madmeg Mon 15-Aug-16 00:08:26

I'm grandma to Edward 4 and Hannah 2. I'm nearly 65. I retired from Uni lecturing about 7 years ago, but still do a bit of academic work. My daughter with the kiddies lives less than an hour away but we rarely see them cos they are so busy. Time slots are hard to organise. I am a bit miffed cos their other grandparents live round the corner and see a lot more of them, if only for half-hour drop-ins. We often resort to Skype but the kiddies don't really respond well to that. It's the best we can do, though. Hannah hardly remembers who we are from one visit to the next. It hurts.

We offer help where possible, but are usually refused.

It's not a happy situation. But there we are.

Meg

shysal Sat 13-Aug-16 08:52:45

Hello 2Nannypat and cazzajen, welcome flowersflowers. I hope you will enjoy GN as much as I do, but be warned, it can waste use up a lot of your time!
My GCs used to call me Nanny, but Nan is better now that they are teenagers.

cazzajen Fri 12-Aug-16 18:57:09

I just joined an hour ago. I've always been known as Nan as that's what my Mum was always known as. My grandchildren are now 14, 15 and 17 so are out of the Nanny stage now, I'm hoping they come back into it as I'm interested in the very air that they breathe! They live away from me so I only see them every 6 wks-thank goodness for facebook or I would have even less contact!

2Nannypat Fri 12-Aug-16 16:57:27

Hi everyone, I've just joined and look forward to having my say?
our two grandaughters have always called me nanny and now
they have reached 16 and 18 I have wondered if they would
rather call me nan..maybe sounds cooler..
2Nannypat Forest2gofor

shysal Fri 12-Aug-16 14:45:07

Welcome Salmo and MaggieMay60 flowers I hope you continue to enjoy GN. We already have a MaggieMaybe so be prepared for some possible confusion!
Congratulations to the soon-to-be great GPs. How wonderful!

Auntieflo Fri 12-Aug-16 14:16:24

Eirel, snap. We found out on Wed, that we also are to become Greatgrandparents in Feb.

Salmo Fri 12-Aug-16 13:42:24

Hello all. smile I've been a fairly regular "lurker" for a while, thought it was time I joined in. I live north of the border, am quite recently retired and have 6 grandchildren between 2 and 14.

Carol1ne63 Thu 11-Aug-16 18:43:59

Thanks shysal! It's a lovely site to pop in and out of smile

MaggieMay60 Thu 11-Aug-16 18:37:19

hello Everyone
I joined yesterday and have only just plucked up the courage to put something on here. It seems like an friendly, interesting site and I think I will find some common ground with all you other grandies. I am a Grandma to 4 lovely little girls so we have a lot of pink!

Elrel Thu 11-Aug-16 18:10:03

Just discovered I'm an expectant great granny,due February!! My own lovely grandmother was always called Greatie by my daughter and we still refer to her as Greatie. I'm happy to be called that or anything else! At one time I was Nan to my Midlands GC and Granny to my London GC. After a few days together they'd all swapped over, except for the smallest who called me Franny anyway!