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Welcome to the *Gransnet Café. This is a non-judgemental space for you to pop in for a cuppa with some virtual friends, seek out advice for a particular problem, or share an update on your life - important or trivial. Feel free to have your say and chat about your day, but please leave any arguments at the door. If you're struggling to find someone to talk to in real life, or are simply looking for a bit of a chat, this is the place for you.

Welcome to new members

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LaraGransnet (GNHQ) Wed 16-Sept-15 14:24:57

If you're new to Gransnet please do make yourself a brew and come introduce yourself on this thread. Hope you enjoy chatting in the forums and that you find it useful, informative, supportive and entertaining. smile

Milasnanna1 Fri 29-Apr-16 16:17:03

I have just joined so not sure of my way round or what I am doing
Well, here is a question but I don't know if I should be asking it here on somewhere else
I've been looking for a dress that I can wear for meals out or parties
It needs to be past the knee, cover my tummy and with 3/4 sleeves. Wrap dresses suit me but I hate clingy fabrics. I am a bit bigger round the waist than I used to be so something that clinches me in would be nice.
A nice fabric is essential so it will last.
Anyone found something I could look it?

Lulu46 Fri 29-Apr-16 09:15:56

Help! I joined yesterday but I can't find my message and I'm not sure if there have been any replies yet?

MontanaGal Fri 29-Apr-16 03:52:49

I've been on Gransnet for several months, commenting sometimes, but mostly reading comments and learning that many others have the same joys, problems, and heart-aches as I have.
However, I often feel like an outsider when reading some of the comments saying how they hate Americans or the way we use different words. Or Americans are a bad influence on the world. Certainly, we have a loser for a President, but hopefully all that will change in November.
So, I will continue to read but not say much unless I have a piece of advice that may be helpful to someone.
I choose to spend my time on GN instead of Facebook as I really enjoy it so much more. I live in a very rural area, so don't have many friends to visit with. Reading the posts on GN is like having a visit with a friend.

Lulu46 Thu 28-Apr-16 15:04:23

Hello. I've just joined Gransnet this afternoon. I'm going to be a first time grandmother in July and my lovely daughter, who will be a solo mum, used donor conception. I wan to help her as much as I can - does anyone have this experience? Any tips?

nanaK54 Tue 26-Apr-16 16:48:34

Thank you for the welcome shysal and you're quite right it's just a number!

shysal Tue 26-Apr-16 16:17:56

Hello nanaK54, welcome flowers. You are a spring chicken compared to me! I have the big 70 looming, not that it bothers me particularly, it is just a number. smile

nanaK54 Tue 26-Apr-16 15:47:11

Hello
Have posted a couple of times but am very much a newbie!
Thoroughly enjoying the forum.
Have four wonderful grandchildren they range in age from just 10 months to 17 years...
The K in my username is for Kathleen and the 54 is sadly not my age but the year of my birth!

RetiredRGN Tue 26-Apr-16 13:19:42

Thank you shysal xx

shysal Mon 25-Apr-16 22:44:17

How rewarding that must be Regalo, but letting him go will be heartwrenching. Glad you are still logging in to GN!

Regalo Mon 25-Apr-16 21:14:52

Shysal...we have the guide dog puppy for 12-14 months and then he goes off for advanced training (heartbreaking when he goes). No we have no contact with anyone with visual impairment...we are doing it as a means of giving something back that may help someone.

shysal Mon 25-Apr-16 20:57:35

Welcome RetiredRGN and Miss2Mrs.flowers flowers What a lot of twin GCs there are these days! Double the fun! Hope you will enjoy Gransnet.

RetiredRGN Mon 25-Apr-16 19:30:09

Thank you hildajenniJ i have a DD who is back living with us so i could have been a younger granny if things had worked out for her she is a Nanny though so i get to see her charges at times 3 children 4 2 and 1 !

Miss2Mrs Mon 25-Apr-16 13:03:25

Hi, just found Gransnet, looks interesting. Between us, we have 8 grandchildren. The eldest being 6 years old and the youngest are twins of 3 months. So I think I might qualify!
It would be interesting to see how other second wives handle the relationships with the wives and children of their husbands sons.... Bit long-winded but I hope you know what I mean.
Looking forward to making some new friends. ?

hildajenniJ Mon 25-Apr-16 09:33:33

Welcome Retired RGN. I live in Northumberland too. My DD lives in Glasgow so I have to travel to see my DGC, she has four, one girl and three boys. I thought I was quite old, not becoming a Granny until I was 55, but apparently not! I hope all goes well with the birth of the twins, how exciting! Enjoy GN, it's a great time waster, I spend far too much time here.

RetiredRGN Mon 25-Apr-16 08:25:08

Thank you NotToOld looking forward to joining in x

NotTooOld Sun 24-Apr-16 22:39:18

Congratulations Retired RGN! Hope everything goes to plan - and welcome to GN!

RetiredRGN Sun 24-Apr-16 21:52:16

Hi all Ive joined tonight as by the end of the week we will be first time paternal grandparents to Twins a girl and boy so counting down the days Son and Dil live in the Midlands and we live in Northumberland
We are so excited and they are good weights already
Maternal Grandparents already have a GS of 9.Months they live equadistant the other way so we both have to travel We have offered to stay in a hotel they will stay with their other daughter who is nearer but still not on doorstep We were wanting to be down there on Friday but last time we spoke they were getting stressed with excitement and said to leave it into next week when they are home So we will wait and see what happens Anyway i cant wait to see them for the very first time and the emotions that it all will bring having waited till nearly 62 for the privilege ? looking forward to being part of here too xx

shysal Sat 23-Apr-16 19:37:29

Hello regalo, glad you are enjoying the site. I am so sorry to read of your loss of twin GSs. How dreadful for you all! You sound like a lovely close family, your GCs are very lucky!
Do you do guide dog training for others or do you have a visually impaired family member? You must have endless patience! I admire you.

Regalo Sat 23-Apr-16 19:00:03

Although I have posted things, I hadn't realised that we could introduce ourselves here. Gransnet is brilliant and I have very much enjoyed browsing and contributing. We have 5 beautiful grandchildren and also twin grandsons,George and Harry, who sadly were with us for too short a time. This was the hardest time of our lives but out of huge sadness comes great strength and our whole family have been amazing. I am very family orientated as is my husband....we absolutely adore our grandchildren, they bring us endless pleasure and love. I never had grandparents which I think makes me appreciate it even more. We also have a guide dog puppy who keeps us on our toes!

shysal Fri 22-Apr-16 16:13:21

Had a peek at your profile - lucky you Solazure, retiring to the sun sunshine! Where are you? I hope you will enjoy the site.

Solazure Fri 22-Apr-16 15:58:21

Hi everyone what a lovely site. Looks well organised sunshine

Bbnan Wed 20-Apr-16 11:24:38

Thank you so much
Am enjoying gransnet great to have other grans to chat to

shysal Tue 19-Apr-16 17:52:14

Welcome Bbnan. flowers What a pity your GD is so far away. Thanks goodness for Skype! I hope you will enjoy Gransnet.smile

Bbnan Tue 19-Apr-16 12:36:21

Hi new member here
I have one granddaughter aged 9 months living in us
I have seen her 3 times so far and on Skype each week
Miss her so but it is very special to have her
Enjoy all your little darlings

shysal Fri 15-Apr-16 08:44:03

Hello, judy, welcome. There is plenty of interest on here for non-grans, it is more an age thing I think. I hope you will enjoy contributing.