Welcome, Ruth. I am lazy and opt to stay logged in all the time, as I am the sole user of the computer. It is then easy to post a new topic, by choosing a category under 'Forums', clicking 'start a new discussion', than adding title and message followed by 'create', previewing first if you want. This sounds a bit garbled, but it usually works! Keep trying.
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, so here I am hiding behind the synthetic fabric of yesteryear and vivid memories of sliding about on a bright red faux-leather banquette in an Indian restaurant wearing my faux silk polyester frock and feeling very sophisticated
