I don't usually post , and have no idea if I am on the right forum, but I just wanted to hear what others think.
On Monday I was informed that my cousins wife died last month. My sister was always the port of call with family, I don't think any of them have my details, but my sister passed away 2 yrs ago so my brother in law answers the calls now.
Seemingly he was informed of her death, and attended the funeral., but said nothing to me. I don't know how I feel apart from angry and a sort of betrayal, after all it is my family.
I have sent a card to my cousin sending him my sympathies and explaining that I didn't know. His wife was a lovely woman and I would have liked to have payed my respects but was denied this.
Just wondered how anyone else would feel.
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