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Mother of the bride - ideas of where to get kitted out

(31 Posts)
Foxgloveandroses Sat 13-Mar-21 23:26:06

Hi everyone,
My daughter's wedding is back on for July ?
Does anyone have any recommendations for shops I can buy my outfit?
I've no idea where to start.

maydonoz Wed 24-Mar-21 15:01:01

Dresses not dressed

maydonoz Wed 24-Mar-21 15:00:20

In recent years, I bought all wedding outfits in Jacques Vert, reasonably priced and comfortable to wear. They were mostly dressed, one two-piece skirt and top.
They wash beautifully as well so no need for fussy dry cleaning.
Good luck, I hope you find something you like and enjoy the day when it comes around!

NotAGran55 Wed 17-Mar-21 17:42:47

Are any of these suggestions useful for you Foxgloveandroses?

Fishpieplease Sun 14-Mar-21 22:27:29

I’ve recently got my MOB outfit from Gina Bacconi from John Lewis. I find her dresses fit very well. There’s also a stand alone website. I ordered a hat from there,which wasn’t suitable,and returned it and was refunded promptly. Even better with 30% off.

Susan56 Sun 14-Mar-21 21:14:02

I went for Jacques Vert for both my daughters wedding.

My elder daughters wedding the dresss,jacket,hat,shoes and bag came to just over £500.By my younger daughters wedding I had been told about Boundary Mill and got a very similar outfit with identical shoes and bag but in a different colour for £150.

PamelaJ1 Sun 14-Mar-21 14:12:11

Try ebay!
I got a lovely outfit- Hobbs - for my nieces wedding. I do know that Hobbs fit me so I felt quite confident. It cost under £40.
Looked good.

glammanana Sun 14-Mar-21 13:40:22

All excellent suggestions from GNers I went for Jacques Vert
sleeveless dress with a short jacket from a concession shop at a fraction of the original price also picked up a very large picture hat from E-bay at a super price.
Please remember to check with the Mother of the Groom as to her colour scheme its best considered.

Lillie Sun 14-Mar-21 13:37:37

Where is the wedding being held? Is it a day and evening event in which case you could have two outfits? What style are the bridesmaids? What colour are the flowers? Do you favour comfort over glamour?
Your name suggests something very flowery.

timetogo2016 Sun 14-Mar-21 13:25:09

Go to light-in-the-box online Foxglove.....
My dh had my wedding dress made to measure and it cost less than £250.
They do every type of dress and they are so well made.

Lucca Sun 14-Mar-21 13:24:24

I do not recommend this kind of OTT look

Lucca Sun 14-Mar-21 13:19:27

LauraNorder

Another one in the Lucca camp.
I’ll never be mother of the bride but have been groom’s mum four times. Wore the same plain but beautifully cut little black dress to each, same black patent stilettos and handbag, used different jacket and accessories each time. Black and white, black and yellow, back and multicolour for last two.
Felt fabulous, smart and no money wasted on frills and flounces.

I approve! As MOG in this country
I wore a navy dress with a bit of crocheted lace and in a vintage shop I found a white pillbox hat with a navy veil.

No surprise to anyone as I have a wardrobe full of navy items....

Visgir1 Sun 14-Mar-21 12:20:59

Agree with all the previous suggestions, have a look at recommendations but when I was MOB a few years ago I couldn't find anything I loved. My chum had the same quandary, she was tiny and what she wanted she could find, she was advised to check out a wedding dress designer who was local, who also made MoB dresses he is amazing.
I saw a fabulous dress that was over 2k, a dream dress, which I added to my pin board when I was showing him my thought he said he could "copy" the style.
He found suitable fabric (bright over the top) matched up the lacey bits which were a red. Made me a sort of dinky fascinator, and added some lace to the back of my colour matched shoes . My dress was bespoke to my shape totally unique. The cost 25% of the one I saw.
So check out in your area if there is anyone around like this guy, if nothing grabs you from the suggestions.
Have fun and good luck

LauraNorder Sun 14-Mar-21 12:08:03

Another one in the Lucca camp.
I’ll never be mother of the bride but have been groom’s mum four times. Wore the same plain but beautifully cut little black dress to each, same black patent stilettos and handbag, used different jacket and accessories each time. Black and white, black and yellow, back and multicolour for last two.
Felt fabulous, smart and no money wasted on frills and flounces.

Blossoming Sun 14-Mar-21 11:52:13

Hobbs and Phase 8 have some lovely classic dresses that can be worn for other occasions. I don’t do ‘fussy’ myself , I look like I’ve raided the ‘dressing up box’.

lemongrove Sun 14-Mar-21 11:45:38

Lucca

I can’t cope with the mother of the bride outfits, in particular the dreaded fascinator. Just choose a lovely dress and sone nice shoes ...who needs all the matchy matchy stuff !,

I agree ( or the price tags!) Having been the MOB twice and MOG (?groom) I simply bought either a dress I liked or a two piece that later could be worn separately if wanted, and wasn’t fussy or over dressy, and wasn’t expensive either.
No awful fascinators, and only a hat once ( because I liked it.)
The matching colour dress ‘n’ coat MOB outfits just weren’t for me.

cornergran Sun 14-Mar-21 11:31:18

If you want to see clothes rather than buy on line once the shops open bear in mind the changing facilities may remain closed. So check return policy carefully. If there is a good, local, independent shop I think I’d look there first. Had great success that way for two weddings. Otherwise as suggested have a look at the John Lewis web site for variety, there is also a virtual personal shopper facility which might be worth a try. Good luck, I’m sure you’ll find something you love.

Oldbat1 Sun 14-Mar-21 11:31:15

Check out if you have a Boundary Mill near where you live. They have amazing reductions on special day outfits from the likes of Hobbs, Jacques Vert etc. I bought my whole outfit for daughter’s wedding from there without spending an absolute fortune.

BigBertha1 Sun 14-Mar-21 11:01:31

I had a lovely dress with a short edge to edge jacket in Royal Blue from Hobbs

Lillie Sun 14-Mar-21 09:51:05

Do you mean actual shops where you can go and try on? John Lewis is good for starters, it has a good selection. I bought one of mine in Fenwicks which sold more unusual fabrics and patterns. Karen Millen, if it still exists?

Sunlover Sun 14-Mar-21 08:31:27

My sons wedding was postponed from June 2020 to June 2021. It’s being held( hopefully) in Corfu. I’d bought a dress last year but now not sure I like it as much ??. Will be searching the internet once again. Looking for a maxi dress that will be cool and look good with sandals.

NotAGran55 Sun 14-Mar-21 07:17:20

John Lewis online and in store have a vast selection of everything possible . Traditional MoB through to summer frocks and shoes , bags , hats etc.
They also offer a free personal stylist service , currently virtually, but brilliant in person when allowed .

Beechnut Sun 14-Mar-21 07:03:52

I made my MoB dress because I knew the style I wanted. I also wanted to feel comfy and be able to wear it again in a more casual manner. I bought a jacket and fascinator to match a colour in the dress.

Scentia Sun 14-Mar-21 06:51:06

Phase Eight have some amazing outfits.

Whitewavemark2 Sun 14-Mar-21 06:43:09

Another vote for Luccas idea.

mumofmadboys Sun 14-Mar-21 06:34:55

I agree with Lucca. Choose something you are comfy in and will wear again.