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New exercise class - I'm a bit miffed.

(61 Posts)
Crocus5 Fri 12-Dec-25 17:26:42

I don’t see how you could legitimately be labelled Racist or Troublemaker , especially as you were encouraged to take this class and you have difficulty getting to the next town.

foxie48 Fri 12-Dec-25 17:08:42

Just a thought, sometimes charities will specifically target groups which normally have difficulty accessing activities, perhaps because of a language barrier. Perhaps the fitness class is taken by someone who is able to speak Nepalese. I don't suppose you live in the Aldershot/Basingstoke area?

Allira Fri 12-Dec-25 16:45:28

It sounds very odd.

How many Nepalese patients with COPD live in your area? It sounds so specific that there may not be enough people for a group to keep going for long unless they open it up to other patients too.

Yes, ask your friend.

Riversidegirl Fri 12-Dec-25 16:38:51

I like football and played at school. I was thinking of trying a local women's group but then found it was for ethnic minorities.

LOUISA1523 Fri 12-Dec-25 16:38:19

There used to be free play groups for 'international family's ( thats how it was termed) ....run by the LA.... they stopped them about a year later ...don't know why

eazybee Fri 12-Dec-25 16:03:55

Definitely; ask why and who is funding it.

butterandjam Fri 12-Dec-25 15:55:02

Shelflife

Not surprised guilty are miffed! I find that very odd indeed. You wouldn't expect a class to be for English only! Hope Hom can throw some light on the strange situation. Let us know what transpires please.

I'd award myself a new Nepalese name and sign up.

Aely Fri 12-Dec-25 15:48:49

Will do. He can be a bit elusive, he's a busy man. Maybe he will pop in for a cuppa before the classes restart in the New Year.

Shelflife Fri 12-Dec-25 15:33:32

You are miffed- apologies!

Shelflife Fri 12-Dec-25 15:33:11

Not surprised guilty are miffed! I find that very odd indeed. You wouldn't expect a class to be for English only! Hope Hom can throw some light on the strange situation. Let us know what transpires please.

Aely Fri 12-Dec-25 15:22:35

My local Council has a Healthy Living scheme, mostly funded by them, the Government and paying users, which offers exercise classes. I have attended the NHS backed COPD class (free but required Doctor's request) which was very helpful to me, really improving my mobility issues and with their encouragement I signed up for a (pay for) follow up course. There is only one I can reach without a car, going by bus, and that is in another town. Ideally I should be doing two a week.

I was delighted to see that another class was starting within walking distance of where I live - but a bit shocked to see it is for Nepalese residents only! I will mention that we did have some Nepalese on my previous course and they didn't seem to be experiencing any problems.
I am inclined to approach the Council about this, but am not sure if I would be labelled Racist or a troublemaker. Maybe I could just have a word with my friend Hom up the road who is a "go-between" for the Nepalese community? He could find out if there is a legitimate reason for the exclusivity of this new class, perhaps.

Am I wrong to feel a bit miffed? What do you think?