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Help deciding baby girl name

(158 Posts)
xoubie Sun 13-Sept-26 11:37:54

My husband and I have differing tastes when it comes to names. We've got two names that we agree on:

Liora and Twyla.

We are both in love with the sound of Liora, but worried because we aren't Jewish and don't want to offend anyone. Twyla is so pretty but we are worried it's too "out there" and the reactions from others we've tested it on haven't been great.

Names I like but my husband dislikes: Melody, Cadence, Violet, Daisy, Annabelle

Names my husband likes but I dislike: Ophelia, Penelope, Lucy, Miriam

Her middle name will be Mae.

Any suggestions if other names? Or opinions on the names Liora or Twyla?

Lupatria Thu 24-Sept-26 13:54:41

twyla is also a little girl in sir terry pratchett's novel "the hogfather". she's described as 4 going on 24!
but I rather like the name.

mabon2 Thu 24-Sept-26 13:51:30

My sixth great grandchild was born last week, a girl. they have named her Daisy Ann, I had a lump in my throat. Ann is an old fashioned name, nobody names their daughter Ann these days, my name is Ann.

Grandmotherto8 Thu 24-Sept-26 13:45:38

You've obviously been researching more unusual names. Maybe you want something less popular than the Olivias & Ellas. You must choose yourself with your partner, it's a wonderful blessing to be able to name your child.

Oldnproud Wed 23-Sept-26 19:06:38

CarrotTop

I love the trend of naming children after the place they were conceived. If I'd done that, my son would be called Canvey Island. Hmmm.... hmm

OH and have often laughed about that trend. If we had done that, one of ours would have been called 'Fools Nook'.

Aveline Wed 23-Sept-26 17:27:08

It wouldn't have occurred to the late Queen that anyone would be crass and insensitive enough to use her personal and private name only used by her very nearest and dearest.

BlueBelle Wed 23-Sept-26 13:30:37

I think it’s pretty unforgivable of you to call her That markle woman’ Harry must have agreed and the late queen didn’t have it declared exclusive I expect they thought it would be a nice gesture

OldFrill Wed 23-Sept-26 12:57:24

Bazza

My friend’s granny told everyone that her new great granddaughter was called Kipper, when she was actually called Erin. She thought it was Herring, and then her elderly mind confused it again with Kipper. Erin is still called Kip.

This is funny but also so, so lovely!

Shel1951 Wed 23-Sept-26 12:55:37

Hope the poster comes back and let us know what they decided to call her in the end, it would be nice

Bazza Wed 23-Sept-26 12:09:05

My friend’s granny told everyone that her new great granddaughter was called Kipper, when she was actually called Erin. She thought it was Herring, and then her elderly mind confused it again with Kipper. Erin is still called Kip.

DamaskRose Wed 23-Sept-26 10:19:45

My name is a little bit unusual and mispronounced by many. My husband’s is misspelt by nearly everybody! My children and grandchildren have straightforward names not misspelt or mispronounced by anyone. I’d recommend that. Don’t like Liora or Twyla, sorry.

mummytummy Wed 23-Sept-26 09:38:29

Personally I don’t like either of the OP’s chosen names.
Some of my favourites in no particular order, are:
Ivy
Elsie
Edith
Heather
Jessica
Annie

There are some names I used to like but then met not so nice people with those names which turned me right off them 😂

Casdon Wed 23-Sept-26 09:27:47

butterandjam

Casdon

It’s always interested me that so many baby girls are given ‘fashionable’ names, often for relatively short periods before another name hits the top, whereas that happens so much less frequently for boys, the majority of whom are given traditional names. Why is that?

Really?

River, Leaf, Ocean, Forest, Phoenix, Kai, Darcy, Finn, Theo....

It is the case though, if you look up the stats. Parents apparently choose more traditional, family names for boys than for girls. That doesn’t mean there aren’t some weird and wonderful boys names, just less of them than there are girls names.

Basgetti Wed 23-Sept-26 09:18:18

“That Markle Wiman”?!
Good grief, you don’t think her husband had any input? 🙄

butterandjam Tue 22-Sept-26 23:07:09

Casdon

It’s always interested me that so many baby girls are given ‘fashionable’ names, often for relatively short periods before another name hits the top, whereas that happens so much less frequently for boys, the majority of whom are given traditional names. Why is that?

Really?

River, Leaf, Ocean, Forest, Phoenix, Kai, Darcy, Finn, Theo....

Frenchgalinspain Tue 22-Sept-26 13:24:24

What do the parents of this little baby girl wish to name her ?

Frenchgalinspain Tue 22-Sept-26 13:10:25

Our twin daughters are Noelle and Natalia.

They were not give middle names as they were given a middle name at their Baptism.

Noelle Christine & Natalia Marie ..

JenniRen Tue 22-Sept-26 12:53:16

Casdon

It’s always interested me that so many baby girls are given ‘fashionable’ names, often for relatively short periods before another name hits the top, whereas that happens so much less frequently for boys, the majority of whom are given traditional names. Why is that?

I have noticed that boys' names had become far less traditional, judging by some of the teenage boys in my granddaughters' peer group at school; some names sound like those of footballers. They are still as popular but not so much now.

Casdon Tue 22-Sept-26 09:40:19

It’s always interested me that so many baby girls are given ‘fashionable’ names, often for relatively short periods before another name hits the top, whereas that happens so much less frequently for boys, the majority of whom are given traditional names. Why is that?

Witzend Tue 22-Sept-26 09:37:38

Aveline

I absolutely can't stand Lilibet unless it's addressed to the Queen by a very close relative. It was unforgivable for that Markle woman to use it. angry

Absolutely!

Basgetti Tue 22-Sept-26 09:35:25

Maybe Leonora or Tara?

Shel1951 Mon 21-Sept-26 16:55:11

I have always loved Lisbeth but sadly dh didn't

JenniRen Wed 16-Sept-26 15:04:50

Greenfinch

As it does when studying family history when people were much more conservative about choosing names. I have lost count of the number of Alexanders with the same surname I have been chasing.

William anyone?
Or John/Jonathan alternately over the generations?

Greenfinch Wed 16-Sept-26 13:20:31

As it does when studying family history when people were much more conservative about choosing names. I have lost count of the number of Alexanders with the same surname I have been chasing.

JenniferEccles Wed 16-Sept-26 12:32:47

Oh apologies Oreo I didn’t realise that.
It’s a good job though that there’s such a variety of names around or life would get very confusing!

NotSpaghetti Wed 16-Sept-26 12:26:09

I think the OP was in part concerned to use it because she isn't Jewish.

There are a lot of Hebrew names in common use though it seems to me.