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Help deciding baby girl name

(158 Posts)
xoubie Sun 13-Sept-26 11:37:54

My husband and I have differing tastes when it comes to names. We've got two names that we agree on:

Liora and Twyla.

We are both in love with the sound of Liora, but worried because we aren't Jewish and don't want to offend anyone. Twyla is so pretty but we are worried it's too "out there" and the reactions from others we've tested it on haven't been great.

Names I like but my husband dislikes: Melody, Cadence, Violet, Daisy, Annabelle

Names my husband likes but I dislike: Ophelia, Penelope, Lucy, Miriam

Her middle name will be Mae.

Any suggestions if other names? Or opinions on the names Liora or Twyla?

Oreo Wed 16-Sept-26 12:14:11

Jennifer you may not like it but Liora is a recognised Jewish name not something made up just now or like naming your child after a type of wine.

JenniferEccles Wed 16-Sept-26 12:06:47

It’s always a minefield choosing a baby’s name so that the child doesn’t grow up to wonder what on earth their parents were thinking of, as dare I say it, with the two mentioned!

I remember reading once that primary school teachers look at the list of their new arrivals in September and how their hearts sink at some, as experience has told them that the child will be somewhat of a challenge as will be the parents!

I won’t mention any names on here for obvious reasons but I’m pretty sure that I am safe quoting Chardonnay!

“Chardonnay! Come ‘ere” !

PamelaJ1 Wed 16-Sept-26 11:32:47

CarrotTop

I love the trend of naming children after the place they were conceived. If I'd done that, my son would be called Canvey Island. Hmmm.... hmm

Mine would be Enton and Five Ashes!
I tried to give mine names that were difficult to shorten. I failed. One just got called by his first initial the other seems to prefer her nickname. I still call them by their given names though and I still like them.

Cressida Wed 16-Sept-26 11:26:00

CarrotTop

I love the trend of naming children after the place they were conceived. If I'd done that, my son would be called Canvey Island. Hmmm.... hmm

I'd have a son called Helston which actually doesn't sound that bad.

Greenfinch Wed 16-Sept-26 11:19:35

I disagree. My nephew was given the name Freddie. He says he is go grateful he wasn’t lumbered with the name Frederick and have to acknowledge that on official documents.

rugbymumcumbria Wed 16-Sept-26 06:44:57

I don’t like it when people give shortened versions of a name to their child. Sure, call your son Bobby if you want, but give him the name Robert - then he can choose his own derivative when he’s older.

Purplepixie Wed 16-Sept-26 05:31:18

How about Ruby Mae?

Beechnut Mon 14-Sept-26 19:13:06

MawsRosie

xoubie

My husband and I have differing tastes when it comes to names. We've got two names that we agree on:

Liora and Twyla.

We are both in love with the sound of Liora, but worried because we aren't Jewish and don't want to offend anyone. Twyla is so pretty but we are worried it's too "out there" and the reactions from others we've tested it on haven't been great.

Names I like but my husband dislikes: Melody, Cadence, Violet, Daisy, Annabelle

Names my husband likes but I dislike: Ophelia, Penelope, Lucy, Miriam

Her middle name will be Mae.

Any suggestions if other names? Or opinions on the names Liora or Twyla?

Cadence ?
How is this a name?
Dictionary definition: The regular rise and fall in the pitch or tone of the human voice.The rhythmic flow of sounds and phrasing in poetry or prose.

I know of someone with the name Cadence. I don’t know if this has anything to do with it but one of her parents is in a band.

Gin Mon 14-Sept-26 18:34:24

A friend of mine was so ashamed / upset at the name given to her first grandchild ‘Tiger’ that she refused to tell anyone.

butterandjam Mon 14-Sept-26 17:58:10

NotSpaghetti

Naomi is a name that can be pronounced all around the world apparently.

That might be worth considering.

Well, it can certainly be pronounced all around the wortld; just not the same way.

Nay-oh- mee

Nye-oh =mee.

Now-mi

Aveline Mon 14-Sept-26 17:43:09

I'd have been called Great King Street. Can't say that trips off the tongue.

Plevey08 Mon 14-Sept-26 17:17:41

And that was just the flower arrangement Esmay 😂

OldFrill Mon 14-Sept-26 15:53:51

CarrotTop

I love the trend of naming children after the place they were conceived. If I'd done that, my son would be called Canvey Island. Hmmm.... hmm

Mine would have been Ullapool 😁

Astitchintime Mon 14-Sept-26 14:55:04

butterandjam

I'm very sorry but both names sound like brand names of bathroom cleaner./airfreshener.

🤣🤣

butterandjam Mon 14-Sept-26 14:51:25

I'm very sorry but both names sound like brand names of bathroom cleaner./airfreshener.

CarrotTop Mon 14-Sept-26 14:39:19

I love the trend of naming children after the place they were conceived. If I'd done that, my son would be called Canvey Island. Hmmm.... hmm

TwiceAsNice Mon 14-Sept-26 14:25:55

Please don’t use either name your child has a real risk of being bullied. There are plenty of more “unusual” names that are still known and familiar . She will be asked over and over how to say it and how to spell it at best

BlueBelle Mon 14-Sept-26 14:11:09

One of my granddaughters has Mae as a second name
It appears it has Latin Hebrew Greek and Egyptian background so pretty cosmopolitan

Esmay Mon 14-Sept-26 14:07:08

Names of flowers are very popular now .
I've heard of a couple of Violets .
At Sunday School yesterday we had two Lilies and it's a small group .

Casdon Mon 14-Sept-26 14:00:39

Oreo

Isn’t Mae a Welsh name? It’s lovely I think, as is the English May and makes a good first or second name.

The Welsh version of May is Mai, not Mae. I don’t know where Mae does come from though.

Oreo Mon 14-Sept-26 13:37:51

Actually OP, I like Violet Mae 😃

Oreo Mon 14-Sept-26 13:36:39

Isn’t Mae a Welsh name? It’s lovely I think, as is the English May and makes a good first or second name.

foxie48 Mon 14-Sept-26 08:28:14

If you want to lose the Jewish connection, why not go with Laura (Laura Mae goes well together) tbh the names sound pretty much the same but Laura is from the latin, laurus.

Ziggy62 Mon 14-Sept-26 08:16:23

Grammaretto

Names are fascinating and everyone has an opinion.

They go in and out of fashion.
You wouldn't find a baby being called Joan, Fiona or Patricia nowadays but they'll be back no doubt.
Likewise Stephen, Roger or John.

According to a few posts on Mumsnet the name Joan is becoming popular again.

MawsRosie Mon 14-Sept-26 07:48:28

xoubie

My husband and I have differing tastes when it comes to names. We've got two names that we agree on:

Liora and Twyla.

We are both in love with the sound of Liora, but worried because we aren't Jewish and don't want to offend anyone. Twyla is so pretty but we are worried it's too "out there" and the reactions from others we've tested it on haven't been great.

Names I like but my husband dislikes: Melody, Cadence, Violet, Daisy, Annabelle

Names my husband likes but I dislike: Ophelia, Penelope, Lucy, Miriam

Her middle name will be Mae.

Any suggestions if other names? Or opinions on the names Liora or Twyla?

Cadence ?
How is this a name?
Dictionary definition: The regular rise and fall in the pitch or tone of the human voice.The rhythmic flow of sounds and phrasing in poetry or prose.