Thank you for all your responses. In the months since I posted this subject my family now know both much more about RA and less about what DDIL really has. The specialist is now unsure again whether she has viral or rheumatoid arthritis, although she has had what she has for three months and is still has all the symptoms and she has to go and see him monthly. She is on medication, although she hasnt had it long enough to know whether it works.
The stories you have all given are really hopeful - and that is what I really needed as my own experiences of people with the disease was so traumatic.
This is what Gransnet does so well, offering help and information and reassurance when events like this hit a family and help, information and reassurance are what you desperately need.
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