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I havent got Ebola fever!

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MiceElf Mon 14-Apr-14 07:24:02

The last time I saw a consultant she outlined two possible medications and asked me what my thoughts were. I replied that as I had no scientific training whatsoever and no access to any of the research and as she was the professional I would leave it to her. She then told me why option one was her recommendation.

thatbags Mon 14-Apr-14 07:18:34

My experience of GPs is that they don't like you to say what you think you have. I've always got a better response from the doctor if I just describe the symptoms/problem and leave diagnosis to them. It doesn't mean they always got the diagnosis right first time but they are more likely to get it right than I am. Plus they have resources for diagnosis that I don't have.

thatbags Mon 14-Apr-14 07:15:50

Why not answer bluntly, flickety, with something like "I've no idea and I don't have your training in medical diagnosis; that's why I'm here" ?

durhamjen Sun 13-Apr-14 23:54:47

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rosesarered Sun 13-Apr-14 20:22:00

Of course we are now all 'customers' and not 'patients' though you need to be VERY patient to get an appointment now, at my surgery.

rosesarered Sun 13-Apr-14 20:20:34

This must be very annoying for you FlicketyB and I think I would say ' I don't know what it is, but those are the symptoms, what do you think'?In fact asking you is idiotic really, so I wonder why they do it?GP's years ago used to say 'what seems to be the trouble?' as Deedaa has stated.It probably can't be improved on really.

FlicketyB Sun 13-Apr-14 15:01:51

It has happened a couple of times with young doctors. I go into the surgery, I describe the symptoms that have led me to seek medical advice and then the doctor says, 'What do you think you have?' My unspoken response is; I have described my symptoms and I am waiting for you to tell what the problem is, if any. If I knew what the problem was I probably wouldn't be here. My spoken response is generally, to repeat the list of symptoms, now I know that the doctor wants me to tell them that I think have Ebola fever or leprosy or TB, I will google before I go to the surgery to find some arcane medical problem I think I have, that they will not have heard of.

Although I do quite well with that when I give a medical history because I had a bowel condition as a child that most GPs do not seem to have heard of.

Deedaa Sat 12-Apr-14 22:55:52

I think our doctors tend to ask "What seems to be the trouble" which is reasonable enough and gives you an opening to ask about what's really worrying you.

Ana Sat 12-Apr-14 22:50:46

Is this a new manifestation of NHS cutbacks then? Diagnose yourself (via Google) and just go to the doc's (if and when you can get an appointment) for the appropriate prescription? confused

rosequartz Sat 12-Apr-14 22:47:16

Went with DH to the doctor and she said "you know what you've got, don't you!" And he saId "yes, my wife has already diagnosed it" blush

It was easy to diagnose (but unpleasant) - shingles.

rosesarered Sat 12-Apr-14 22:20:30

Is this just your doctor I wonder, as mine doesn't say that?My doctor says 'what can I help you with?' The last time I almost said 'could you come round tonight and help me shift a wardrobe'? but sanity then kicked in.

Ana Sat 12-Apr-14 21:52:01

I'm with you, FlicketyB. I don't want my doctor to be asking me what I think is wrong with me.

I want him/her to ask me what symptoms I have and then to do the appropriate examinations/tests etc. and give me their diagnosis!

JessM Sat 12-Apr-14 21:40:08

Patients are very various. By asking an open question the doctor may find out all kinds of things. Big improvements on "war seems to be the problem" or "what can i do for you" . I think you should cut your doctor a wee bit of slack. Its probably what they tell them to ask in GP school. grin

FlicketyB Sat 12-Apr-14 20:24:48

Yes but .......you are all assuming that the patient would respond according to instructions. The reason for my query is that I totally failed to realise the significance of the question so I just found it irritating and offputting and I felt they were pushing their job onto me, which was ridiculous and it certainly undermined my confidence in the doctor. I am sure I am not alone in my reaction

Also, if you were a non-smoker, actual or passive, and had had a bad cough for sometime and were convinced you had lung cancer, if the doctor said to you, after you had described your symptoms, what you thought you had, would you admit you were convinced you had cancer when the chances of you having it are so small? I do not think I would.

Stansgran Sat 12-Apr-14 17:16:07

My DD1 had a flat mate who checked herself into hospital insisting she had necrotising fasciitis when it first became talked about, 20 odd years ago.of course she hadn't She is now a high powered lawyer.

JessM Sat 12-Apr-14 13:38:31

I think it is an excellent question. A great way of getting the patient to open up.
Sometimes the answer would be something like "I've got thrush/cystitis/blocked sinuses again" which would save a lot of time.
Or the answer might be "I've got a lump in my neck and I'm worried about cancer" which would get the worst worry out in the open straight away, so that it could be addressed.

jinglbellsfrocks Sat 12-Apr-14 13:35:24

I think that's just a starting point for the doctor. I would tell him what I was thinking it might be. What would be the point in seeing the doctor if you are not going to be upfront about it?

Tegan Sat 12-Apr-14 13:11:07

Yes; need to get his diagnosis out of the way before they proceed to consult Dr Google themselves.

ffinnochio Sat 12-Apr-14 13:07:11

They're probably checking up on what they think you might have been googling Flickety wink

FlicketyB Sat 12-Apr-14 12:31:30

I am fortunate I rarely need to see a doctor, but when I have over the last few years I have got increasing irritated when the doctor I see, usually a young doctor, asks me what I think is the matter with me. I am always polite but inwardly I am thinking 'if I knew what was wrong with me I probably wouldn't be here', the same applies when they ask me what treatment I think I need.

But today in one of the newspapers I got enlightenment. These questions are asked in case I think I have Ebola Fever or other dire disease and if I tell them that the doctor can then re-assure me.

Now I do understand that some patients, for a variety of reasons do worry and convince themselves that every problem is terminal. But I am not convinced that, even if asked the question, whether the patient will admit that is what they were thinking, nobody likes to make themselves look a fool - or that they would necessarily believe any reassurance the doctor may give them.