dealing with sad and happy news at the same time..

bikergran I have been away so haven't followed your posts. I send you my sincere condolences. I know that you will find some solace and comfort here over the next difficult months. Take care

Glad it went well biker

to all

Glad it went well * biker*. Take your time and start to look forward to the new baby!

Have just caught up with this thread and want to express my sadness and send my love to you. Hold on to that lovely image of Mr.Biker waving to someone at the bottom of his bed. What a lovely last few minutes.

biker, don't worry about moving on. It's early days yet. You're still emotionally stunned and it has all happened so quickly. You may have said goodbye but you still have a store of good memories that will never leave you. You have good family support and the prospect of a new baby. Meanwhile, good night and sleep peacefully.

biker I'm so glad that it went well, look after yourself now

Glad all went well, biker.

So glad a sad day for you all went well, biker and family.

So glad that the funeral went smoothly biker and that you were able to deal with this difficult day better than you had expected. Well done.

Lovely words and very true grannyactivist.

Thinking of you bikergran and wishing you and very happy memories.

So glad all went well Biker.

One day at a time. One day at a time.

Hello all, well as you all know the Funeral was yesterday and I think it was better it being early, all went perfect, apart from the original hiccup with the Funeral people, we moved Mr Biker to another one, an independent one, and poor soul had been moved around at home with different mattresses , he must have wondered what the heck was going on!
The service was just perfect, with his eldest son reading and one of dd also reading, I am so glad we went with the independent funeral director, as he had little touches that made such a difference (roses given out to close family to put on the coffin as we were leaving)
I felt peaceful, I thought I would be a reck! but quite the opposite!
Not sure how I am meant? to be feeling, and maybe it is all a bit numb and hasn't sunk in I don't know.
But I know I have to try and move on and I know I will do at some time,I don't want to doom and gloom on GN too much as we all have our problems, and once again a BIG thanks to you all, Mr Biker would have been so pleased at all the support and virtual cards I received.
Chat soon and goodnight

I hope all went well this morning, biker. Been thinking of you and your family.

Biker - "To live in hearts we leave behind is not to die".

I was thinking about you all at 9.40 today, as I am sure were many others. I hope it was a fitting tribute. xxx

Thinking of you bikergran

In my thoughts today especially.

For today

My thoughts are with you today biker

I hope today goes as you wish. Thinking of you all.

Lots of love bikergran to you and your family on this day.

Look after yourself, be kind to yourself in the coming months and remember that death will never take love away. Your DH will always be with you.

Thinking of you today biker. Remember the happy times.

So sorry to hear your sad news. So many Gnetters will be thinking of you tomorrow morning. If you should feel a little shaky, think of the loving family surrounding you, and then, in the background, a big crowd of virtual friends offering support - distant maybe but there for you nevertheless.