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Erectile dysfunction

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womblekelly Sun 31-Aug-14 18:38:49

Seems v much to be a taboo subject ... Why? My husband had an operation for bowel cancer 12 months ago and since then has suffered from this - we we're warned this cld happen and go has been great but no drug has helped just wondered anyone else has had same happen ???

papaoscar Wed 31-Dec-14 11:44:19

A long, long time ago when the performance of one's organ seemed to be of paramount importance it was common practice to discuss measures that could be used to assist stamina and good shooting, as it were. Somebody said they had read that oranges were the answer, so out he went out bought a large bag of Jaffas and scoffed the lot. Nothing happened for 24 hours then his organ assumed monstrous proportions and would not deflate for a couple of days or so. None of the rest if us felt inclined to follow his example. Whether it was the oranges or something else we never found out.

pompa Wed 31-Dec-14 12:22:02

Richard, just PM'd you.

whitewave Wed 31-Dec-14 14:51:44

grin

whitewave Wed 31-Dec-14 14:52:22

Oh! the grin was for galen!

granjura Wed 31-Dec-14 15:57:10

Many men with erectile disfunction have heart problem and are on the type of medication which would make taking Viagra very dangerous- and just not worth it.

pompa Wed 31-Dec-14 18:01:49

I agree, could get Viagra online, but would not risk it without my DRs consent.

richard7 Wed 31-Dec-14 20:15:51

You can go to chemist and enquire about it, some chemists can sell, do not go online for it though.

R.

Galen Wed 31-Dec-14 20:38:14

On line gives all the information needed. No chemist would dispense it if a patient was on drugs that would inter react. They have programs that warn them if that would be the case

Galen Wed 31-Dec-14 20:39:26

I meant you can find inter reactions on line. I agree, DO NOT BUY ON LINE

Mishap Wed 31-Dec-14 20:53:32

A 92 year old relative of mine wanted to get viagra when he took up with a young fancy woman. He was very angry indeed when it was refused because of his heart condition - he thought it was ageist! He died at 94, still fighting his corner,

Stansgran Wed 31-Dec-14 21:53:03

Pompa your GP won't make you feel uncomfortable.tell yourself that one of his colleagues may be prescribing it for him. It has another name these days and perhaps if you requested that you might not feel uncomfortable. Calling Galen, can you look in your data sheets and find out its not so well known name?

granjura Thu 01-Jan-15 08:51:59

Well I know- what a way to go, some might say. But honestly, and it is difficult to imagine- but if I thought that taking Viagra or similar could kill my DH because of heart problems- I just could not enjoy sex. As Galen movingly says, if she could have her husband back, sex would not be at the top of the agenda- however much sex was an enjoyable part of the partnership before.

harrigran Thu 01-Jan-15 13:10:38

Sildenafil Stansgran.

Charleygirl Thu 01-Jan-15 13:34:50

Sildenafil citrate is the other name for Viagra

granjura Thu 01-Jan-15 14:00:35

From Harvard Medical School:

These drugs are safe for healthy hearts, but all men with cardiovascular disease should take special precautions, and some cannot use them under any circumstances. The problem is their effect on arteries. All arteries, not just those in the penis, generate nitric oxide, so any artery can widen in response to Viagra, Levitra, or Cialis, causing blood pressure to drop temporarily by 5-8 mmHg, even in healthy men.

Organic nitrates are drugs that widen arteries by increasing their supply of nitric oxide; that’s how they open the partially blocked coronary arteries in patients with angina. But because nitrates and ED pills both act on nitric oxide, the drugs don’t mix; healthy volunteers given Viagra followed an hour later by nitroglycerin see their blood pressures drop by 25–51 mm Hg, a potentially dangerous amount. All experts agree that men who are taking nitrates cannot use ED pills; this includes all preparations of nitroglycerin (short-acting, under-the-tongue tablets or sprays), long-acting nitrates (isosorbide dinitrate or Isordil, Sorbitrate, and others, and isosorbide mononitrate, Imdur, ISMO, and others), nitroglycerin patches and pastes, and amyl nitrite or amyl nitrate (so-called poppers, which some men use for sexual stimulation). Men who have taken Viagra or Levitra must not take nitrates for 24 hours; for Cialis, the ban extends to 48 hours, a disadvantage for men at risk for heart disease.

Faced with concern about ED pills and the heart, the FDA has urged caution in patients who have suffered heart attacks, strokes, or serious disturbances of the heart’s pumping rhythm in the previous six months, in men with a history of congestive heart failure or unstable angina, and in men with low blood pressure or uncontrolled high blood pressure (above 170/110 mm Hg). Because certain medications can boost the blood levels of these drugs, men taking erythromycin or certain antifungal or anti-HIV medications should use only low-dose PDE-5 inhibitors. Reduced dosage is also important for men with advanced age and for those with significant kidney or liver disease.

Mishap Thu 01-Jan-15 14:11:56

I am going to risk being accused of lowering the tone of this thread by sharing with you a joke that a friend sent me this morning. I do realise the seriousness of the problem for those who suffer from it but I think a bit of humour is good for us.........

"Sex and Good Grammar

On his 70th birthday, a man got a gift certificate from his wife.

The certificate paid for a visit to a medicine man living on a nearby reservation who was rumored to have a wonderful cure for erectile dysfunction.

After being persuaded, he drove to the reservation, handed his ticket to the medicine man and wondered what he was in for.

The old man handed a potion to him, and with a grip of his shoulder, warned, "This is a powerful medicine. You take only a teaspoon full and then say '1-2-3' When you do, you will become more manly than you have ever been in your life and you can perform as long as you want."

The man was encouraged. As he walked away, he turned and asked, "How do I stop the medicine from working?"

"Your partner must say '1-2-3-4,'" he responded, "but when she does, the medicine will not work again until the next full moon."

He was very eager to see if it worked so he went home, showered, shaved, took a spoonful of the medicine and then invited his wife to join him in the bedroom. When she came in, he took off his clothes and said, "1-2-3!" Immediately, he was the manliest of men. His wife was excited and began throwing off her clothes and then she asked

"What was the 1-2-3 for?"

And that, boys and girls, is why we should never end our sentences with a preposition, because we could end up with a dangling participle."

Galen Thu 01-Jan-15 14:26:32

grin

granjura Thu 01-Jan-15 14:31:17

LOL Mishap smile

pompa Thu 01-Jan-15 21:21:27

On a more serious note, I'm going to give Richards idea a try. Checked on NHS and there does seem some evidence that these rings work.
Found some rubber rings about the right size in the garage, I think they were for mounting the exhaust on an old car I had. They are a bit greasy and grubby, but I'm sure they will scrub up OK. In the dark, who will notice.
Will report on the results asap.

Ana Thu 01-Jan-15 21:36:49

Pompa! grin

(I do hope you're not serious...hmm)

pompa Thu 01-Jan-15 22:01:12

Of course I am. I looked at the link Richard sent me and they are just rubber rings, nothing special. Found several rings that might be ok, but these were the closest match.

yogagran Thu 01-Jan-15 22:02:53

How I wish there was a "like" button for mishap's and pompa's comments up there ^^

Grannyknot Thu 01-Jan-15 22:08:19

Lol.

Galen Thu 01-Jan-15 22:13:59

Knowing the diameter of an exhaust! Wow!shockblush
And the rings are to enhance the diameter and firmness!

Ladies, I think we should report this post to GNHQ under the heading of 'advertising'

Grannyknot Thu 01-Jan-15 22:17:41

Lol Plus!