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anyone else had abnormal results of bowel cancer screening

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etheltbags1 Tue 04-Nov-14 19:27:02

I seem to be always asking you all for advice but I really appreciate your views. Today I got the results of my bowel cancer screening and it said 'abnormal', they booked me in to see someone in two weeks time. I am scared witless, has anyone else had an 'abnormal' result and not had bowel cancer ?, if so please reassure me.
Any advice welcome, also about the dreaded colonscopy, I have a phobia about hospitals and have no-one to take me or to stay with me at home so have to face it alone.

Penstemmon Sun 23-Nov-14 20:00:24

I have not had this procedure so cannot comment on the level of discomfort you may feel ethel but you have got yourself well and truly wound up about this. I can fully understand why, it is a very worrying time for you and it is not a procedure many would have by choice.

However I do think your angry words about having to fit in with NHS appointment cock ups was not appropriate! You had the chance to have the procedure done sooner (possibly because other patients cancelled appointments) For good reason you could not take up the offer. Cannot see the need to castigate the NHS!

soontobe Sun 23-Nov-14 20:12:16

Soutra, you have the wrong end of the stick regarding my post. I was trying to say the opposite ot ethelbags.
I have no idea how long she has been a poster on this forum. But assuming she has been here a while, and assuming that she recognises the names on this thread, then I was trying to say that she should be able to trust them.

soontobe Sun 23-Nov-14 20:13:28

Please have a reread of what I wrote.

Soutra Sun 23-Nov-14 20:40:37

<would you say you have been on this site long enough to know whose posts you can trust>

By definition you are suggesting that there are some you can't trust as opposed to Google. It would appear I am not alone in how I read your peculiar comment (*ana, Elegran* and mishap perhaps) . When in a hole it is best to stop digging!

Brendawymms Sun 23-Nov-14 20:47:46

When I had a macula off detached retina I turned to google and read, with one good eye, everything I could and without exception the inference as well as stated word was that the outcome for sight "was bleak". I was very upset about the whole thing. Eighteen months on I have very nearly 20/20 vision in that eye. ( that's perfect vision)
So Ethal Read things on Google but take it with a pinch of salt. Believe instead what the dear GN'ers have to say who have had the procedure you are facing and be reassured. All will be well.

soontobe Sun 23-Nov-14 20:51:09

I agree that I could have written it better.

I am saying that ethel may feel that she cant trust some posters if she has not seen them about enough, or if she has never heard of them.
It is about how ethel feels, not about the trustworthiness of the posters.

Soutra Sun 23-Nov-14 23:24:40

I think that etheltbags has been a member for long enough (give or take a name change or two) for our names to be familiar to her even if not to you, but in any case this is only your interpretation and such aspersions might have been better left uncast.

Charleygirl Mon 24-Nov-14 07:26:53

I agree with everything that Penstemmon has said. I took the time and effort to reply to your concerns re a colonoscopy and I do not like to be called a liar. As previously mentioned, I elected not to have any sedation and for a split second I felt the tube being passed into my anus and after that I was trying to watch the screen but I did not have my glasses on.

It is nonsense that you will end up with a chest infection because it is light sedation, not a general anaesthetic. Why not get the procedure over and done with and stop slagging us and the NHS which did not cock up- I think you were fortunate to be offered an earlier date because somebody will have cancelled for whatever reason.

I have had a knee replacement done and that was painful!

petallus Mon 24-Nov-14 08:05:20

It didn't occur to me for one minute that soontobe was suggesting some of us are not trustworthy.

I think you'd have to try quite hard to think that she was!

soontobe Mon 24-Nov-14 08:17:54

Thanks

loopylou Mon 24-Nov-14 08:37:34

Dear Ethelbags, I know that the wait is so much worse than the actual procedure. I have had 5 colonoscopies and polyps removed, there really is nothing to fear. Am a nurse, a big coward and so very aware of both sides of the table, so as to speak! The staff are very good at putting you at ease, and I do hope all goes well for you.

Charleygirl Mon 24-Nov-14 16:28:55

The prep and the waiting are the worst- it is easy to get upset thinking about it. Good luck when it does take place.

broomsticks Mon 24-Nov-14 17:16:33

Even if the worst comes to the worst and that is NOT going to happen flowers. Don't worry too much, my friend has just had bowel cancer and is now fine and all clear.

rosequartz Mon 24-Nov-14 18:27:30

Hope all goes well, etheltbags. Keep calm, perhaps the GP can prescribe something for you to keep you calm and do some deep breathing. I hope the results will be negative (is that the right word?), there are all sorts of reasons for a screening test to be abnormal as other posters have said.
That being said, I have been too much of a coward to do mine.

flowers for you

Deedaa Mon 24-Nov-14 22:45:20

ethelbags my DH has had two colonoscopies, both with sedation. He loathes anything like that and if there had been any problems at all he would never have had a second one.

Elegran Mon 24-Nov-14 23:09:02

etheltbags has not posted since her outburst on Sunday 23rd Nov at 11:18:26

Charleygirl Tue 25-Nov-14 09:34:35

Elegran that was also noted by me!

Soutra Tue 25-Nov-14 11:25:51

Oh dear- stress? Trying to ignore the issue? Have we upset her confused? Maybe not obsessing would be a good thing, but somehow I doubt it. Fretting alone would be very destructive and I hope that is not the case.hmm

rosequartz Tue 25-Nov-14 12:11:51

Was it today ethel was going to the hospital?

Ana Tue 25-Nov-14 12:15:07

No, Friday 28th.

aggie Tue 25-Nov-14 12:32:26

Poor Ethel I hope she gets there ok and finds that we were right all along

KatyK Tue 25-Nov-14 12:50:30

Just an added word of reassurance for ethel should she return to the thread. My DH had a colonoscopy last year. He said it was a bit unpleasant and uncomfortable but not at all painful. I attended the hospital with him and saw several people going in for this procedure. At no point did I hear anyone screaming in pain. I can understand your fear and I would be apprehensive but please take reassurance from the very sensible posts here. DH was fine, there was nothing wrong.

Charleygirl Tue 25-Nov-14 13:59:09

I am not sure if she is actually having the colonoscopy done this Friday. I think that she is going to discuss it with somebody first. She may post to say that I am totally wrong, I hope so because it should be done and the sooner the better.

rosequartz Tue 25-Nov-14 14:25:31

We can't be with you in person, ethel but we are with you in spirit. flowers

shysal Tue 25-Nov-14 14:33:34

Ethel had the discussion appointment last week, and the actual colonoscopy is on 28th.