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Bad day.

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rubylady Sat 21-Feb-15 02:57:07

Sorry I've already done a new thread today but it's been a bad day today and I wanted a moan.

My breathlessness is not easing even though a few weeks ago it was getting a little better and I was coping better. But since last week it's been as bad as over Christmas. I can still feel catarrh and so have got some hot curries in to help expel (sorry blush). We will have these over the weekend. I'm on Ventolin which I don't like taking as it's another drug and giving up smoking was supposed to be cutting the drugs in my system. Plus, what is it masking? I'm not good at just taking stuff without finding the cause out and treating that, not the symptoms. Stupid doctors. I've lost faith in them.

I can, however, lose some weight as I do have a little bit to lose (around 5 stone). This might help in the breathing department. I have just done my shopping order for next week and it's full of fish, veg and fruit, not a cake in sight! grin

It's not easy though trying to lose weight while feeling rubbish but is one not aggravating the other? I'll try the healthy eating and see how I go. And I will phone the leisure centre and enquire about going looking round for aqua aerobics or a light swim just yet. Something has to happen.

I've done nothing but keep falling asleep today and for a few days now. I've had a tight throat, swollen gland feeling, aching joints and limbs, sore back and hard of breathing. I get about 4 hours sleep at night regardless of time I go to bed. If I'd have been a horse today, I'd have put myself out of my own misery. Well, I wouldn't, but you know what I mean. Sometimes I just have days when I'm ill at ease with myself.

Anyone else feel like this from time to time?

absent Sat 21-Feb-15 03:43:49

It is not uncommon to become wheezy after giving up smoking. I think all the guk that has accumulated in one's lungs loosens and causes a "smoker's cough" even though you may not actually have had one when you were smoking. It doesn't last too long but it's tiresome while it's around.

MariClaire Sat 21-Feb-15 06:30:59

I understand you've had it with the doctors, ruby. When it comes to breathing, though, it's wise to call and check in again. I hope you feel better tomorrow.

Liz46 Sat 21-Feb-15 07:28:47

rubylady, have you considered going to yoga classes? You just do what you can and nobody pushes you to do something you are not comfortable with. It is also a good way of learning relaxation which may help you sleep. The breathing exercises could help your lungs. Our local Age UK runs classes for the over 50s.
I am over 60 and therefore get daytime use of a local sports club for just over £20 a month. I do yoga, swimming and aqua aerobics. I haven't used the gym yet but am thinking about it.

Soutra Sat 21-Feb-15 09:02:55

Rubylady I am sorry to hear you are feeling so poorly, especially when having made the wise decision to quit smoking, you deserve to feel better.
It takes time of course, but I wonder what your doctor has said when you last saw him/her?
Have you had a blood test recently? It might be worth checking that for anaemia and of course blood sugar. But it also occurs to me that some of the symptoms you describe could be this nasty flu virus that so many people have had this winter.
Good luck!

Mishap Sat 21-Feb-15 10:57:17

Don't give up on the quitting smoking - I expect you were doing it for a long time, so it will take a while for the body to adjust. Just make sure you get your chest cleared by the doc every now and again if it is not improving.

Spring is round the corner!

ginny Sat 21-Feb-15 11:44:47

Hope you soon feel better. Don't give upon the not smoking.

I had a bit of a moment earlier. Walking the dogs and a sudden pain went up my leg and is still hurting 2 hrs. later. Just feeling a bit down having had several different problems over the last 3 years. My new knees are wonderful , not a twinge from them but other things are stopping me from making the most of them. Still Spring is coming and there could be worse things wrong with me.

Mishap Sat 21-Feb-15 11:55:32

I think we are all getting a bit wobbly one way or another Ginny - hope that the pain in your leg improves soon. flowers

Crafting Sat 21-Feb-15 14:14:46

rubylady the ventolin is what they call a reliever which is supposed to open up the airways and help your breathing to be easier. Use it as advised and it may help. It it doesn't , try going back to the GP as there are other things you can try. If you were asthmatic for example there are other inhalers which are called preventers which are longer lasting action and help reduce the symptoms of breathlessness. Maybe you need some steroids to get you over this but please do try and get some more help. Losing weight may help too. My DH has lost 3 stone and his breathing has improved. As you say, not so easy to diet if you don't feel that good.

Hope you feel better soon flowers

rubylady Sun 22-Feb-15 04:25:29

Thank you all for your lovely comments, I just needed a virtual hug. smile

I have no intention of starting smoking again, I feel like I have never smoked now and it was for around 10 years when I did.

I stopped in October though and as I was starting to feel better I expected to go from strength to strength so was surprised to go back a bit. I didn't feel as bad yesterday though so I'll see how things go.

Crafting Yes, I know about inhalers as my son was an asthmatic as a baby and child and my brother and dad before that so I've been dealing with inhalers all my life in one form or another. The ventolin does it's job, I just didn't want to take on another medication, that's all. I'm on plenty as it is.

It is true Spring is coming and quickly too, bulbs already up and snowdrops dancing in the winter sun. My sweet peas which I ordered online have come and I will eagerly await sowing these next month. My fence will be done by then too so it will all start to come together for my new garden and then I can transfer my plants from the old house into this one, they are in containers now but are going in the ground here. I got some fence paint samples too in cerise and bright yellow so going to try those out but the neighbours might not like them. grin

I am normally upbeat and optimistic but I just had a down day, we all get them from time to time. I think when you deal with pain every day and then something else knocks you sideways too it can be hard to deal with. Just having a "feel sorry for me" day, I'll be ok now. But thanks again for your support, it really does help to set me straight again. smile