It's obviously a very difficult and painful time for relatives watching someone they love, and the LCP gives the patient some control over how they want to be cared for during the last weeks or days. We all want the best for the patient but it can conflict with what relatives think should be done, whether or not that is best for the person dying.
Your DH was a very courageous man durhamjen and by making his wishes clear it hopefully ensured that you had some quality time together at a very sad time. ((Hugs)) to anyone going through such a sad time x
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