Well, it is interesting actually. Not making excuses for not losing weight, but... My mil suddenly became absolutely obsessed with losing weight when she turned 70- I'd always known her to be a bit chubby. And sure enough, she go quite thin and then dementia set-in. I've seen it happen with several people fairly recently- first this obsession with eating less and less and boasting about it, and then obsession with more and more exercise- and then other changes in behaviour that slowly turn out to be the onset of dementia/Alzheimers. We often wondered with my mil at the time, and other people too.
Mind you, both my parents were skeletal by the time of their demise, at 94 and 96, and both had all their marbles and more...
I definitely want to lose some weight-but I truly don't think older people look well when they lose too much. It can be embarrassing when people tell you how wonderful they look with all that weight lost, and you think, hmmmm actually wou look haggard, but you can't say so.
Demential/ Alzheimers or a severe debilitating stroke is my absolute terror - and would much prefer go of a heart attack. And where I live, should I be struck by some other terrible disease, at least I have the choice of what to do next and take a sort 'exit' if I want to- choice which is taken away with dementia or Alzheimers.