I cant think anyone could have an experience like I did the other day. I had an appointment for a routine check up at a hospital I haven't had much to do with so I was nervous not knowing what to expect.
I was told to arrive by 7.30 and to starve from midnight as I was having a general anaesthetic. It said that everyone has to be in by 7.30 even if the treatment is not done until 5pm. That means starving all day.
I get light headed if I don't eat so I was not in the best of moods, having got up at 4.30 to get there by 7am. I waited until 8.30 before anyone came to seek me and I was shaking with fear, the doc seemed uninterested and fobbed off my questions. If he had answered them I would have been better but I kept thinking is this just a routine test do they think my cancer is back, the evasiveness really got me. As I had cold he said that he wasn't happy for me to have the process but to be sure he went off to ask the surgeon and I had to wait another hour in the waiting room, he never returned and I complained to the nurse and walked out.
They rang to ask if I wanted another appointment and I cant go to another hospital so I have reluctantly agreed but I don't want to go. I had counted 70 people herded in the waiting room like refugees all prepared to wait all day. The NHS is in a really bad state if this sort of thing continues, I was just amazed at the staffs attitude, polite though they all were none were really friendly it felt like they had no time to spend to take an interest in me as a person. I felt like just a number.
This was a big city centre hospital and just so busy I was amazed, Im used to my local hospital where almost all the staff take time to chat and make me feel like they are interested in me. Not just a number.
do you have plasterboard on your walls?
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