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non stop talking

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durhamjen Mon 18-Jan-16 10:12:09

My grandson says "Do you have to talk to everybody?"
I say they are being friendly, and it's polite. But you do not talk to everybody, only those you know.
Anyway, when you live on your own and there's nobody to talk to a lot of the time, it's good to talk to someone every day.
Nothing worse than somebody being found dead at home and nobody noticed they had not been seen for days or weeks.

rubylady Mon 18-Jan-16 01:08:43

I'm the non stopping talking person you are complaining about! My family walk away from me too, hey ho, I won't stop, it's who I am.

NanSue Sun 17-Jan-16 20:09:25

My mum can be really embarrassingly rude. She often says hurtful things, mostly directed to her grandchildren, e.g. Telling them they are getting fat etc., she too feels she's old enough to say exactly what she wants.
My DD told her that she was pregnant a few year's back and her answer to that was "bad luck". Unfortunately a few days later she miscarried and I will never forget that.
As for the non stop talking she is a little guilty of that but I just put that down to her age.
ethelbags my grandson also has problems re eating flowers

Jalima Sun 17-Jan-16 19:59:42

My MIL talked non-stop, she didn't live nearby but I phoned her often. After a day at work, looking after the family etc, I would be so tired but she would chat non-stop about inconsequential things, her neighbours, the buses, the local Council, the local shopkeepers etc. I would lay my head down on the kitchen table and nearly nod off, once she caught me when I mumbled 'Yes, of course' and I should have said 'no'.

I do talk to people in shops, must stop myself, I am becoming an old biddy.

rosesarered Sun 17-Jan-16 19:54:05

Sounds a proper character! Lol. However I wouldn't tell my Mother to be quiet, maybe let it wash over you instead? only answer messages when you want to, and don't answer all her calls.If at the shops and she is yakking away, chivvy her gently somewhere else?
At least you know that she isn't lonely, and has plenty to do.

etheltbags1 Sun 17-Jan-16 19:38:55

I not only have problems with my DGD re eating but with my elderly mother too, she is getting worse. I know this is similar to another thread about older people being rude because they think they are entitled to at their age. However my mother just doesn't stop talking. If we are in a shop and she sees someone she talks non stop, I can see them edging away . She is a bore.

If she rings me to tell me for instance that shes bought a bargain at a shop, she starts off with the whole story of how she got up that day, what she wore, what the weather was, who she sat next to in the bus and then what shops she went in then finally what she bought and the cost of it. Everything becomes a story, She is getting worse and can be quite aggressive too, if I tell her to be quiet she will say that she will soon be quiet for ever and makes me feel guilty. I love just coming home from work and lazing on the sofa relaxing but she will have left messages on the phone to which I must reply. She is not lonely, she belongs to groups/has friends and has a busier social life than me. She is aggressive and tells everyone off for not doing as she has said, I challenged this and she says that if people persist in doing the 'wrong thing' then they must be spoken to. I tell her to mind her own business and she says people like me are no good they allow others to walk over them. Help !!!