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washing intimate places

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etheltbags1 Mon 25-Jan-16 22:04:48

I cant remember if it was on gnet that I read about the correct way to wash the vagina. I read that you must never wash the inner labia only the outer. The inner has its own system of cleaning itself and can be affected by harsh soap/detergent. I had an argument today with a family member about how to wash this area and she washes the inner (bits) on her little girl, I have never believed in washing babies in that area unless they were soiled and only then with a damp tissue, not those scented baby wipes. So my question is, to settle the argument- do we wash the inner labia, women or babies or let it clean itself.

whitewave Tue 26-Jan-16 22:04:42

Need a bidet?

Ana Tue 26-Jan-16 22:01:07

Must admit I thought that was a bit OTT luckygirl, but each to their own...grin

Luckygirl Tue 26-Jan-16 21:57:07

Another wash after No 2!!! I have IBS and if I were to do that I would spend a large part of my life washing - it's quite enough to spend a large part of my life c****ing!!

f77ms Tue 26-Jan-16 21:49:39

Daily shower, use shower gel everywhere!! Never heard that you should only wash certain bits before lol

Willow500 Tue 26-Jan-16 18:15:00

Daily shower with scrunchy thing and shower cream - slight spray of Femfresh and always use pant liners. I've never washed inside - always told it wasn't necessary as it's self cleaning.

jinglbellsfrocks Tue 26-Jan-16 17:52:10

Are we taking this discussion too far? confused

jinglbellsfrocks Tue 26-Jan-16 17:50:32

Sitting on your ar sit-upon for too long in the day encourages whiffs.

downtoearth Tue 26-Jan-16 17:38:54

Daily bath wash with shower gel and scrunch front and back bottom all squeaky clean,and and another wash if have to do number 2 after my bath

Luckygirl Tue 26-Jan-16 17:16:17

My DGSs never pull back their foreskin and wash under it - I watch them being bathed. And all is well.

Riverwalk - yes, vulva definitely.

Regalo - oh no, not Femfresh, the dreaded fanny flit! Water will do and it is cheaper.

Regalo Tue 26-Jan-16 17:10:10

Always use Femfresh intimate wash

granjura Tue 26-Jan-16 16:52:09

I have a shower every morning and a wash down below as I do- but never ever wash 'vagina' - and I can assure you I don't pong either. Thanks!

mumofmadboys Tue 26-Jan-16 14:43:11

Usually age five or six.

JessM Tue 26-Jan-16 14:33:54

The foreskins on small boys are often too tight to retract, in fact they are stuck down. That's when they are best left alone. Small boys will soon discover how to retract them in the bath when their foreskins permit!

Riverwalk Tue 26-Jan-16 14:27:29

The OP has referred to the vagina when I think she means vulva - I stand to be corrected.

There is certainly no need to be washing the vagina, as in the internal canal, although I know in certain countries women go in for douches, but I would say that the inner labia needs to be cleansed with soap & water/water only.

I can't believe that women wouldn't wash there.

As for not retracting foreskin to be washed - I'm speechless! shock

tanith Tue 26-Jan-16 14:16:59

Clean underwear daily and a good wash with water and soap/shower gel (if you aren't allergic) daily certainly means there won't be any 'pong' for goodness sake , we aren't saying we don't wash 'downstairs' just not scrubbing at inner parts that are delicate and should be left alone.

Its people who either have incontinence problems or don't wash and put on clean underwear daily who might be 'pongy'.

Ana Tue 26-Jan-16 14:15:24

I don't think there's any 'pong' likely to be coming from inside your vagina, unless you've got an infection!

Obviously all the outside bits should be kept clean...hmm

TriciaF Tue 26-Jan-16 14:08:55

"or you will pong" - good point Jings smile
I had to go to the Dr's this morning and remembered just in time to change my knickers.
Actually that's another point - sometimes people pong because they're wearing soiled underwear.

jinglbellsfrocks Tue 26-Jan-16 14:05:09

Yes. grin

Gagagran Tue 26-Jan-16 14:04:29

Good play on words there jings grin

Jalima Tue 26-Jan-16 14:03:06

Soap stings, some shower gels are OK, and Femfresh shower stuff is good, it doesn't sting and deodorises.

Or a good soak in the bath.

jinglbellsfrocks Tue 26-Jan-16 13:56:48

Wash it. With soap. Or you will pong. Especially as we get older.

"Self cleaning" my Aunt Fanny. hmm

Luckygirl Tue 26-Jan-16 13:33:40

I suppose in a way it is akin to pulling back the foreskin in boys. They say not to do it I think.

Greyduster Tue 26-Jan-16 11:43:34

Same as teetime!

Luckygirl Tue 26-Jan-16 11:40:24

I only grovelled about in detailed cleaning of my DDs when they had managed to get poo in seemingly unreachable places. When they were out of nappies I did not go for inner labia - they just soaked in the bath.

As for me - water only.

I cannot cope with anything in the way of bath salts or scented soap in the nether regions without excruciating stinging. Not that I can still get in the bath!

M0nica Tue 26-Jan-16 11:04:08

As a bather rather than a showerer, the problem resolves itself without any action by me.