lizzypop You're right, I did kind of skim-read it but I am confused about the kind of oats I have got and whether it's suitable. I was trying to get the jist of the diet really and see if it was do-able. I'm trying to include different foods from our'norm' to substitute for the carbs we're advised to avoid.
As to exercise....all through my teens I hated PE and exercise and my mother was complicit in helping me 'skive off' PE because it made my life a misery (the PE teacher was a sadistic bully). My mother's belief that PE isn't necessary for girls was, I later realised, completely misguided, but it took me decades to begin to pull myself out of that mindset and minimal walking was my aim for some time, I am ashamed to say, compounded by family problems, depression and anxiety for several years.
I made several attempts to overcome this and become fitter. Decades ago I joined an independent slimming group with a friend and lost loads of weight. It stayed off till my DD2 went into hospital for major surgery; in the aftermath, caring for her, I comfort-ate and re-established bad habits.
Over the years I've matched my appetite to my DH's - though he can eat loads and remain lean and fit - and indulged my sweet tooth, but our day to day meals have been healthy and we almost always cook from scratch. In recent years our diet's become even better, but my weight's increased still further, partly due to meds I'm on but mostly by my failure to believe I could do much about it.
Now I am exercising more, trying to bring my cholesterol down (last reading was definitely lower :-) ) and for my heart health and general fitness. I try to go to the gym twice a week but I know that is not enough - however, it's loads better than what I was doing before (nothing!). We go out during the week so I get more walking done, but I'm aware it still isn't enough and I'm trying to build this up further and planning some longer walks in the countryside. I am nervous about this: my negative inner voice says 'You'll never do it!' and I worry about stupid things like needing the loo/being taken short whilst in the middle of the countryside, or feeling breathless and not being able to carry on walking. I know the only way is to just DO it and I can see that to many already active, fit Gransnetters, I am merely making excuses for inactivity, but I have already made some changes and I am psyching myself up to make more. I feel in awe of those who walk miles a day and think nothing of it. Tonight we watched one of the Julia Bradbury walks we'd recorded and I really wanted to be able to do what she does, but 6 miles over hills and fields to me sounds like the top of Everest! (and it would be another 6 back again).
We've got out local map out and looked at some local walks we can do, so I'm hoping we can start to do some of those regularly soon (and hopefully factor in routes near pubs for comfort stops!)
Sorry for the over-long, boring post - sometimes I feel that there is too much about me that I need to change, and I can't do it all at once 